Questions Asked Before Marriage
by Some questions you need to ask your would-be spouse before you get married.
If you are serious about marriage (supposing you are going to be a groom), I don’t think you will keep silent when staying with your bride. There must be some questions that you want to ask her. Silly questions may spoil your relationship, which leads to a breakup. Wise questions can accelerate the marriage date, or at least, you can gain her heart more firmly.
What are the best questions to ask before marriage? Actually, your aim is to know if she truly loves you, and if she is the right person for you. Every one knows that marriage out of money usually is not happy. So, you may want to know if your bride is for your money. It is not wise to ask questions to know about it. Therefore, choice the right time and under right situation, bring forth your right questions.
Do not ask the questions very formally–it is not in a church for your wedding ceremony. Do not let her know that you ask the questions with a purpose. It should be a very common conversation. Don’t ask questions like this: “Do you love me or my money?” Silly question, isn’t it? If you really want to know about it, you’d better say it this way: “Dear, if I am as poor as a church mouse, how long do you think our love can last?” She will take it seriously, and give you a more reliable answer.
With this strategy in mind, you may ask questions on the following topics:
- True Love
- Family
- Career
- Hobbies and Habit
- Views of Life
I think questions related to these topics are the best questions to ask your bride, because the questions will help to know if a marriage can last long. For your reference, here are the best questions I think that you should ask your bride.
- If I am as poor as a church mouse, do you want to marry me, and how long do you think our love can last?
- When do you want to have children, and how many do you want to have?
This question is to be asked jokingly, but you can let your bride think it seriously. True love is the base of a good marriage. No true love, no happy marriage. So, this is a very good question for your bride.
This question is to see if she loves children, and we know that children are the ties between husband and wife of a happy family. What’s more, a family is not considered to be complete without children. You have to let her know that children are the fruit of marriage.
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Post Commentwilliam rodriguez II
On June 13, 2008 at 2:10 am
Very good ideas
Qeana
On June 17, 2008 at 9:13 am
Think twice before marriage: http://BeforeAndAfterMarriage.com
Vish
On August 10, 2008 at 7:30 am
Thanks for the questions….but would be good if there are answers too
Vikrant Singh .
On February 4, 2009 at 9:38 pm
When Company want Employee for it deserving Post , then it conduct Interviews which have series of Round , So one have to justify how much of Interview round a spouse should conduct before Marriage , becuase we are Indian , we dont believe in DIVORCE after marriage !1
Regards,
Vikrant Singh , Bangalore
vicky_indian14@yahoo.com
went4thejoke
On April 26, 2009 at 10:26 pm
I wish someone had told me to ask and think about questions like, ” When you look into the future do you see yourself still being the fun loving person you are now or do you see this as “just a way to get the person you love” and you really can’t wait to just sit in front of the TV and not have to go anywhere or do anything, “Because, you already did that and you don’t see the purpose, after all you are not looking for a woman.!”
Or
how do you want to handle conflict? Do you want to try more than one resolution or if after the 1 try didn’t work, will you give up and not try another?