Reasons for Friction Between Couples
by Couples quarrel due to many reasons and break up. Here I have listed some common reasons. If you have any of the below qualities then try to change it and hence lead a happy life.
- Thinking about any recent arguments or issues to find fault.
- Over reacting to any difference of opinion.
- Making a negative interpretation when the other person says or does something.
- Being rigid in your decision.
- Repeating the same pattern of words again and again during arguments. Just like a broken record.
- Continuing a fight although you know you can stop it.
- Exaggerating trivial matters and creating a huge issue out of it.
- Being unreasonable in debate.
- Never admitting yourself for mistakes.
- Feeling others ideas are useless.
- Being hopeless in thought and words.
If you lose all the above bad qualities then even at the age of 70 you can be like this…
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Post CommentMohammadG
On October 7, 2009 at 8:53 pm
Awesome article.
ashan1614
On October 9, 2009 at 8:51 am
I think you have really pinpointed the major problems with this article. I’ve seen these play out in many break-ups.
Ntemeku Stephen Kityo
On December 5, 2010 at 9:11 am
Thanks for these key issues. It becomes very difficult to love
fully if you are ever looking for faults and also judging them
Some of these actions are result of luck of confidence and self esteem by that partner
Surely there will forever be friction in a relationship that is pegged on complaints and fault finding