Rekindle Your Love Life

Many couples are dying a slow death on the inside and don’t even know it.  When your passion starts to die you slowly loose the strong connection you once had.  What separates close friends from a husband or wife is the passion and intimacy a husband and wife share. The bedroom is supposed to be a couples safe haven and mighty tower.  Many people will probably laugh at this because they lost their romance a long time ago.  Some people’s bedroom probably looks like a work haven instead of a rest haven.  People just don’t get it anymore; they take work home that they are supposed to leave at work.  Is your house still a home or is just the place you go to sleep?  The way you view your home, your marriage, and your bedroom is the way you view your love life.  

Remember when you argued about missing a day without making love.  Remember when you went shopping for that special fit to turn your spouse on.  Remember when you cared about how you looked for your spouse.  These memories are the special ingredients needed to rekindle your love.  Have you lost your saltiness for your spouse?  You see salt gives things flavor; a marriage is about constantly flavoring our spouse to make them that much better.  When your love life seems dead throw some salt on it to spice things up.  The salt is the calls you make during the day just to say I love you.  The salt is putting work down to sit down and talk under the fireplace.  The salt is holding hands when you are out in public.  The salt is gentle kisses throughout the day and gentle strokes that awakens the senses.  The salt is taking the extra time, to look extra special for our spouse.  The salt is taking a vacation every now and then to get away from the norm, and ignite our spontaneity.