Can you handle it? If you can, are you ready to settle?
A sex only relationship is a very risky game between singles who likes to have a no strings attach relationship. This is a very dangerous game to play, if you say that there’s no rules behind it? Think again. A sex only relationship has strict rules. What are the rules?
No regular text. No regular calls. Expect limited communication. He or she will communicate with you for only one reason and you know what it is.
No Love Attachment
Be aware that this is just pure sex. However, it is inevitable if you fall in love with her or him. That’s why, you have to guard yourself. As I mentioned earlier, this is not a fair game.
Strictly Not Personal
If you ask questions, she or he doesn’t oblige to answer the question. Whatever she or he’s doing in life, don’t pry. Don’t show attitude. If you want to ask more, maybe you wanted more than just sex.
What To Expect?
If it is just sex, then it is. If the guy or a gal agreed to have just sex with you, don’t expect that she or he will treat you special. For women, don’t expect flowers, movies and special things. For men, don’t expect something.
She or he will call you at the middle of the night or after. Either text or call, expect that it’s going to happen at the middle of the night. Don’t ever think of sweet texts. It is direct, straight and to the point. It’s up to you if you reject all those texts or calls.
If condom and pills will not work out. Expect that in the long run, you will get pregnant. If you’re thinking about abortion, that’s another story. If the girl will continue the pregnancy, it’s very rare that the guy will stand for her. If he does, I will salute for this kind of guy. Anyhow, it’s seldom happen.
Are you ready to settle for this kind of relationship? If you are needy, weak or very dependent, I urge you not to settle for this type of relationship. You will end up frustrated, insecure and feeling depress. Don’t ever fall in love for her or him. If both of you have the same motivation, it’s another story. You have to know if you can make it or settle in this type of relationship. Evaluate yourself or try to think about it for so many times. Don’t rush or follow the flow of your own emotion. Remember that our hearts are so deceitful in so many ways. Feelings and emotions are just temporary. Attraction will fade and lust will end up a disastrous event. Besides, it’s absolutely deadly. Morally speaking, it’s sin.
If you’re looking for romantic love, sex is not the answer. There are many things to do in life, not just this one.