Relationship

Hi readers there was a time I said take whatever life throws at you, afterall love is all about loving the imperfect  perfectly,  because beauty lies only in the eyes of the beholder. But I have learnt a lesson, that  love is like mathematics. You need to use your brain rather than try random number which will end up with an unsolved equation.  An inequal solution doesnt lead to a balanced and healthy relationship. The basic principle for relationship is that  both minds must be compatible; at least you should have something you love in common, so that could be the foundation of every conversation you both have.  Use your brains before going into a relationship, dont think or expect too much outcome because you cannot sow a seed on a rock and expect a tree to sprout out.  If you know that this person you are about to give your heart to will never change in the mere future dont believe that the power of love will do it. Im not trying to discorage anyone here either because love is powerful that a lot of times it bends the warriors heart but this happens only in rare cases and frequently in movies. Your life isnt a script so the director wont change your story, so be carefull when singing the songs of solomon. I know it sounds amazing on the first week but you never know what the rest of your lives together will be like. The is a proverb which says you can’t wash away the spot of a leopard,  so if you are a  non smoker, dont  believes you can change your patner just by waving the magic wand. or dating a womaniser and beleiving he will change because you might be  disappointment at the outcome.  So readers when next you are out there in seach of your soulmate , seach cautiously don’t sell your self short, lest you will be repeating your walk on that same path only 2 month into the relationship you had put all you trust in…. Go out there readers and love with your heart… Cheers till we meet again.