Relationship on the Rocks: What Can I Do?

When a person can say that their relationship is on the rocks, it is time to make those rocks pebbles!. Relationships are hard to come by for some and a little too easy to come by for other’s, There are two kinds of relationships the everlasting and the ever devastating, When your romance is turned upside down you are lost in a vast cloud of doubt. What relationship are you in? Is it the everlasting? Or the all so heart breaking ever devastating? You have to figure which relationship you are in first…lets say there is true love and than just for fun, True Love can be fun but just for fun cannot ever be true love, just for fun is for those who don’t have the dignity to love, True Love is for those who would die for the person in any harm or danger that they are in, Just for fun will kill your heart long before the pain of anything else will.

Now that you have figured that out there is now yet another question bobbing in the sea of love, What if he/she has hurt me? When there is hurt in your life, the pain goes away but the memory will always stay, but the thing about our memories that I find amazingly helpful for myself is that for every good thing that he/she has done for you, For every time they are there for you, you should use that time and cherish it to help build the foundation of a happy view of them.

Anger can get in the way of a happy relationship, sometimes you can use anger to shut out someone’s love when what really needs to happen is you need to show them how it is not to hurt you. In relationships sometimes there are times that you have to work a little harder to maintain that man/woman you fell in love with.

What needs to be remember in time of turmoil and distress between two loved ones is “The book of love has an eraser, But sometimes when books get old the further back the story goes the harder it is to erase without tearing the page or pages.” also remember that even though you would like to go back and erase these times it has to be done very slowly and very carefully because right now your page of love with him/her is worn and weathered but if you take the time to forgive…it will be cleaned and white once again.

In closing, ponder on the thought, relax and think of the fun times and the dear times between the two of you and ask yourself, “Am I willing to forgive?.” Because you cannot forgive if you are not willing too.