Relationship Truths

Hello all,

It has been awhile sense I have written so I thought I would Wright about a topic that to me is important to my life. The topic that I am talking about is called “Love.” Love moves in interesting ways. Does anyone really know what love is? What does love really feel like? Why does love hurt? Why is it that a person can act and or treat a person how ever they feel? What happens when the love of a person’s life decides to become hateful and unrealistic what happens then? What happens when the spouse does things that hurt the other by words and comments? Each thing that has been done over time to that person that is supposed to be thee one has now been repeated multiple times. How is the heart to forget and not pull back that love due to all the bad that has been committed against the one and only. All these questions are very serious questions to any marriage and or any relation ship for that matter. Love the relationship. Love is there in friendship (friend) there is love in a marriage. There is love in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Why does love fade away? Love is everywhere!

The answers to all these questions only are in the mind of the individuals who have them. The thoughts of love get distorted sometimes by the person’s desires. Some people will hide there true selves from the person that they love. And they will not show who they really are until later in the relationship. Like until the person gets married. If the two moves in together then the person thinks that it’s ok to treat that person like crap every time the person turns around. The person might be depressed or something but then they act like they are not your friend and take the word of others, this could happen to anyone a girlfriend, a wife, or even a husband. No one knows what tomorrow might hold.

The acceptance of people is getting harder and harder with the standards set so high. The need of wanting to feel loved, to feel wanted, to feel like there is no other place I would rather be. But that’s hard when a person that has given those vows decides to do the unthinkable thing while being upset at others around. While out of work and all things falling down around takes it out on the spouse and then takes and disrespects her in every way. When he is asked why he did that he says “you never say you do anything wrong?” and she says “You never listen to me I do admit when I do something wrong.” and he just keeps repeating it over and over again until she feels guilty inside like she had done something and makes her feel bad and she wonders if he was justified for his actions. Well this is just a scenario of a person’s life weather its true or not that is the mystery but one would think that this would not be. For in this life each person deserves a right to be happy, every person deserves to be free from depression.