Relationships: Are They The Ones?

Relationship?

As i sit here i just think of what a relationship is, they come in all shapes and sizes. Before we even get into one, we know it’s most likely going to end, and someone is going to get hurt, and when i think about that i realize that there is no point of creating a bond, a relationship with anybody if you know for a fact that it is going to be broken. The magic of any relationship, the key to any relationship is faith. If we do not have faith in a relationship it’s because we know for a fact what the outcome is going to be. And depending on the person, some may like the outcome and some may not. Faith in the relationship is key to prolong it and enjoy it, with faith we know that we can overcome the problems that will eventually show up along the way. With faith we know we can trust the person, with faith we know that it won’t just be a waste of time.

To love or not to love?

When it comes to the relationship being a one with the opposite sex as a couple, things get complicated. Too many times we think that we need to be “dating” someone just for the fact of not being alone. Now i tell you, the worse decisions are made when they are rushed ones. When we decide to go “out” with someone out of plain impulse, there’s a huge chance that it’s not going to end pretty. Let’s not get sucked into the system that tells us that we need to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend as soon as possible. Don’t rush into that crap, there’s  millions of people out there, and there is a good chance that you are going to meet some of them. And who knows, maybe the one you were looking for was there.

Now, if you know that the one you’re with is right for you, then don’t let anybody tell you he/she is not. Because i can assure you you will regret loosing them on the long run, too many times we let the right ones go, again, “out of impulse”. If you think you have the right bird in your hands, don’t let it fly away, keep it in your hands, and take care of it.