Reminder for Those in Love (and for Those Who Will be in Love Someday)

1. Loving someone is not about seeing him/her everyday. No matter how you wanted to be with each other every minute of the day, you have to give yourselves a chance to explore other things as well. You have to trust your partner. As the saying goes, Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2. Too much jealousy can kill but a little of it makes a relationship healthy. It feels good that someone is afraid to lose you; this applies to both men and women.
3. If you don’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with that person then what’s the point of staying? It’s just being fair to each other, stop wasting your time trying to figure it out.
4. Never ever underestimate the value of holding hands. It’s the first time you knew that you love that person and the first time you found out that you are being loved. It’s a very simple gesture that could open up a lot of new things.
5. Look forward to spending time with him/her. Don’t ever demand. Don’t make it into something that will make your partner feel responsible of. It’s not to be made into an obligation because then you take out the magic from it.
6. Support one another. Don’t ever be jealous of the achievements of your partner, instead be with him/her and enjoy the moment of success that he/she have. Besides you may have been his/her inspiration.
7. When you fight, don’t prolong the agony. Communicate and listen. Don’t let pride ruin what you have. Learn to sit down and listen to what each of you has to say.
8. Small random acts of sweetness have guaranteed tremendous effects. This is one thing that should not be disregarded. Kissing your partner goodbye before you go to work is something that would make her day and would remind her that you love her.
9. Don’t undervalue laughter. Continue to laugh at each other. Being able to share a good laugh no matter how tired or busy you both are, is a vital role in strengthening your relationship.
10. More often than not, it’s the EX that most couples fight about. Try not to talk about it. Just be reminded that you are both lucky to have found one another and you have your own experience to look forward to.
11. Guys will always be guys. There are things in your man that you can never change. For one, they will always look forward to meeting different girls the whole day but remember that it is who’s in their hearts that they will be thinking before they go to bed at night.
12. Physical looks are never the measure of a real relationship.
    For guys: So what if you don’t have the looks of Brad Pitt?
    For girls: So what if you don’t have the curves of Jessica Alba?
    What is important is that in the eyes of your partner, you are the most beautiful, sexy, attractive looking person they will ever want to spend their life with.
13. Never forget why you love her/him. Sometimes when we are in a relationship for a long time, we tend to forget the reasons why we are with the person we are with. Constantly remind yourself the little things you like in him/her, the little things that became the reasons why you are in love.
14. Never take for granted the word “Sweetheart or Honey”. These are just two of the many words we use to address our loved ones. With those words, we show to them how much we care and how we value their presence in our lives. It may sound corny or awkward to some, but it’s the mushy things you do that make your relationship interesting.
15. Never forget that he/she is a friend. Friendship is the foundation of a strong relationship. When the romance fades, it’s the friendship that will keep you together.
16. Say I LOVE YOU for the right reasons. Say these words because you mean it and not because you have to. These are life-changing words, a confirmation of feelings that is intended for that one person you have been waiting for your whole life. Never hold back in saying it, you will feel better if you do.

These are just simple reminders that will guide you and a reality check as well whether you love the person you are with the right way. It is always good to fall in love. Never fear something that is so great that you may never want to let it go once you found it.