Romance: All Occasions Become Romantic Encounters of Discovery
by Take control of your romantic destiny by learning how to make all occasions become romantic encounters of discovery. Empower yourself through the interests and passion you already have.
Are you lonely and looking for romance? You say, “yes, but why can’t I seem to find it?” “I see people everywhere, but the world is so busy and moving so fast it seems the attractive ones disappear before I can decide how to approach them.”
That’s the point! Stop trying to CATCH them on the run. Instead, purposefully make all occasions become romantic encounters of discovery. After all, romance is a deliberate pursuit, so be deliberate about it. How? Slow down and “make” occasions for romantic encounters. What do I mean?
Plan occasions that will maximize your opportunity to meet the kind of person you are looking for. Do you love to dance? If you love to dance, then why are you vegging at home dancing alone? Boring! Ummm, and how do you suppose you will encounter romance at home alone? Get out there in the world and dance. There are all kinds of dance companies out there. Guess what? All the people who go there are not hooked up. Dance itself is very romantic. Learn new dances with new people. Don’t forget, married or other couples do know single people. Oh, you forgot, huh? (chuckle)
It’s all about expanding your horizons. Take what you already love or enjoy and find places to do it where you are most likely to find others with the same interests. What do you think the chances are if you go to a dance studio that: hello, the people there might be interested in dance. “Oh my gosh!”, you say, ”like that would be so much easier. I mean, to strike up conversation would be so much easier because we would have the same interests.” Wow! What a revelation. I know. I am too funny.
Think about it! People, including you find themselves miserable trying to discover unique ways to make an extraordinary occasion happen in order to have romantic encounters of discovery when the answer is ordinary and simple. Stop trying so hard!
Let all of your interests in life become occasions for romantic discovery. The internet is a great place to find people with similar interests in your area. Talk about a one-stop shop. Oh man! This is the most poorly utilized means to make all occasions become a romantic encounter of discovery. What’s the problem? People just don’t take it from the net to the real world occasion. They just superficially entertain each other for hours hiding behind a screen. Get off the screen and make the occasion happen, you romantic slouch.
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