Romance: All Occasions Become Romantic Encounters of Discovery
by Take control of your romantic destiny by learning how to make all occasions become romantic encounters of discovery. Empower yourself through the interests and passion you already have.
Be a learner. People are intrigued by well-rounded people whose knowledge or abilities surprise them regularly. Smart is sexy as long as you share your smart stuff in sexy fashion. People don’t like a know it all: more rightly stated as someone who believes they know it all, all the time and makes sure everyone knows it. Smart sexy is different. This is just someone who takes an interest in learning and contributes what they have learned sparingly as occasion presents itself. The proverbial know it all asserts their knowledge at all times. Obviously, if you are with a group who doesn’t know their way around the town they are in, but you do and they get lost discovering later you knew the way, but didn’t share it: that’s so not sexy.
Be a helper. Always be willing to help others. The more you invest in others, the greater the return. Find causes you are passionate about, and volunteer. What, you think the opposite sex won’t be there? (smile) Get with it sleepy: men and women volunteer last time I checked. You might try helping the elderly cross the street or shovel their walk. You never know what that son or daughter of theirs is all about.
Be a keeper. This is the part where you just relax and let all occasions become romantic encounters of discovery without stressing yourself or pressing someone else for the big commitment. Don’t make it a point to invest yourself “emotionally” in someone you are trying to discover romantically. Just let it happen. Enjoy all the smart and purposeful occasions you have made and just let things develop without all the heavy expectations. Whatever you do, don’t ever force it with someone. If they don’t seem interested, don’t go over board (beg) them to notice you. Trust me, if you keep it light, make it fun, enjoy your occasions, plan more occasions then all occasions become romantic encounters of discovery you will always cherish and never forget.
Be on time. I am not talking about punctuality. Never talk yourself out of making an occasion. Go for it! Do it now. You are right on time when you climb out of your hole and decide to take charge of making the occasion for romance. It’s never a wrong thing, but vegging at home alone when you can make it happen and be in control is all wrong. You have something to offer and you can make a perfect occasion happen for yourself and once you have, you will be hooked to do more. When you have found that romance partner, then you can fan the flames of your passion together and still: all occasions become encounters of romantic discovery. You just do it together and help others to find it too.
Be naughty at it, but be good!
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