Saying I Love You Without Ever Saying a Word

Make Love and each other a Priority. That doesn’t mean you can’t have interests apart from your Spouse or that you have to be on top of each other every minute of every day. It just means that when you do things, you might want to think first how your decision impacts your Partner. Believe me that this not easy, especially for man. It is worth it however. By making love and each other a Priority in your life you will go a long way. That too needs to be a two way street however, one sided just spells disaster.

Seeing loudly: “I love you!”

This Section is for the wives mainly, but might give you gents some great Ideas. These are examples of what I saw as being told that “he still loves me!”

• We both work hard all week long, when the weekend comes around I know that my husband would dearly love to sit down and play PC Games, download his Movies from the Internet or listen to music. With other words do things that include FUN FOR HIM stuff and mainly sitting down. Instead he is willing to take me places to take care of the things I want to do. He spends time with me and our daughter, even if more often or not it is a big hassle for at least a couple of hours in the beginning.
• Listen to me when I read the Articles I write, to get his opinion. I know he really has no interest in the things I write about, but he knows it means a lot to me to share my interests with him.
• Plays PC Games with me from time to time, which involves him having to set up my Computer, teach me the game and tons of patience on his part. I am not a very good PC Gamer, but from time to time I love to partner him in his interest. Our version of Family Game Night, yes even our Daughter gets involved.
• We both love books and music. He never fails to find a Book in a Store to show me that he thinks might interest me. I have some tastes in Music that are not for him, but he never fails to find a copy for me that he knows fits my tastes as well or tries to share his taste with me. I think that is adorable and I feel loved.
• This is fairly new in the way of time (maybe about 2 Years now), but ever so often when we go places he finds beautiful Pieces of jewelry he buys for me. I have a horrible Metal Allergy and Jewelry for me is always a hit and miss. For that reason I don’t want expensive Jewelry, but he finds the loveliest pieces of reasonably priced Jewelry and gives them to me as gifts. I have to say, my husband hasn’t gone wrong yet, his taste in Jewelry is wonderful.
• Pulling me close at night so I can feel or hear his heartbeat, even when he is tired or sometimes annoyed with me. I can not sleep well if I don’t feel him close to me at least for a little while. My husband is my haven.
• He is the type of person that can make me laugh hard enough to almost pee my pants. What is the strange thing about it is that he is a serious Person. So he has very dry humor. I know he likes to make me laugh and I love to see the mischief in his eyes.
• I enjoy drawing, arts and crafts. He is always on the lookout for some little thing I can use.
• When we go to the Lake, or on hikes I love to collect rocks, seashells, crystals etc. There is seldom a time that goes by that he doesn’t pick a rock, seashell or crystal for me that he finds special or different.
• Putting up with my mood swings. Like every woman I have mood swings and I have to say, he takes them mostly in good graces. He could be like so many other men and leave me alone during those days. Using it for an excuse to get out of the house and away from me, but he doesn’t. He is never further then a call away.
• I know that he won’t cheat on me. I know that without any doubt. I still get aggravated when other woman flirt with him, I find it disrespectful. It isn’t him I don’t trust it is them. I guess in a way, I just know that he is wonderful and I know that there are enough women that like to destroy relationships.
• Sometimes, just be being there. When he is deeply engrossed in something he is doing and then out of the blue, he comes to get me. By sharing what he has found with me, letting me see his interests.
• By wanting me by his side, even if he could get things done so much faster and without as much hassle if he would go by himself or do it by himself
• By letting me be mostly who I am and bragging to others behind my back about my accomplishments. He won’t say great and loving things to me (I wish he would like any woman), but I have heard often from others how much he brags about my accomplishments.
• By taking time out to make something for me, repair something if I ask him for it, or explain something I don’t understand for the 100th time if needs be
• Putting CD’s together for me on the Computer
• Taking me to work and picking me up so I don’t have to take the bus

Those are only a few examples, but they are everyday things that tell me, he loves me. I don’t take anything for granted, because I know he doesn’t owe me anything. Keep your eyes out ladies and see the little things your husband does for you. I don’t demand anything from him, I ask for very little of him and I have the World laid at my feet. Not literally and I won’t be able to have everything my heart desires, but the things that are most important to me I will have thanks to my husbands love.