Seduction Rules – Rules of Marriage

Some time ago, two Americans author Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider have thought to write two books for women, a sort of guidelines before and after marriage.

Although it is about life and women on the American continent, because cards can very well address women everywhere. When you read, you get to revolt several times noting how authors advise you to be, primarily male subject.But there is a reverse, a sufficiently motivated to benefit all possible efforts or changes.

Here would be rules of seduction, before marriage:
1. Be a creature other-than-all-other
2. Do not address you first a man
3. Urges men do not look too much talk
4. Do not meet him halfway
5. Do not call him and rarely return his calls
6. You always end your phone call
7. You always ends your intlnirea
8. Stop dating him if you do not make romantic gifts
9. Do not meet with him only once or twice a week
10. At the first meeting, a little kiss and so
11. Do not rush to get to sex
12. Do not tell you what to do
13. Let him take the lead
14. Do not expect one man to change
15. Did not you open up
16. Be honest but mysterious
17. Do not live together
18. Do not meet with men married
19. Be perceptive – and other rules for high school girls
20. Do not put yourself in danger
21. ”Next!” And other rules apply when you are rejected
22. Apply rules and you will live happily ever after
23. Love only those who love you (it is about men)
24. Life with you and be easy to

And

The rules of marriage:
1. Relax during your engagement and wedding
2. Continues to be a different creature than-all-other-
3. Take care how you look, but do not overdo it
4. Keep doing what you’re interested (of your life)
5. Reduce your expectations in first year together
6. Have team spirit
7. Give them 15 minutes (of solitude) when they return home
8. Be supportive
9. Let him win
10. Accept that some things are not your job
11. Try not to call him too often at work
12. And you make them gifts, but very rarely
13. Do not expect too much understanding from your husband
14. Rules for when you argue
15. Say what you think, but do not do it in a bad way (not malicious)
16. Do not use the word Divorce
17. Do not yell, talk normal
18. To compare is to despair. Do not compare with other spouses
19. Do not ask for advice from your friends unmarried
20. Prepare a family dinner at least once a week
21. Do not force him to talk
22. Do not take every word he utters
23. Do things that you do not want to
24. He can say anything about his family, you do not
25. Make him feel that the most important person in your life
26. Listen to advice and try to appreciate them
27. Do not try to do everything you
28. Get with it tonight
29. Rules for sex
30. Rules for when you’re pregnant
31. Do not complain of children
32. You for you
33. Do not expect applause (appreciation) for what you do in house
34. Do not bother him (not to be annoying)
35. Do not find flaws on the things we know about him before marriage
36. It’s easier to be and stay married than get married
37. Go on a trip a week
38. Do not change or do not work too large
39. Do not think the answer lies in marital counseling (your problems)
40. Realize that your marriage is over, if you are cheated, and at least once
41. Divorce with dignity
42. Meet with other men, right after you divorced
43. Rules for second marriage

Initially I thought to go with bold some of the rules. But that would have meant to be subjective and will draw attention to things that I thought were most important one thousand.

We could discuss each one, comment on and draw some conclusions. Were each of you could come with pros and cons of these rules. Someone would say that rules are made to be broken (but at what price!).

If I have aroused interest, will let you discover books, and inspire you to meditate on these items. Each of you will be able to discover if and where a mistake will power congratulated for what he did well, instinct, or those learned from others.