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Seven Reasons I Said Yes to His Marriage Proposal

I married him on December 6th, 2008.

This is for all you men our their that are ready to take that next step and propose to her!!

1) (The most important of all!) Every woman wants to know her man “feels her love” Yes gentleman we women thrive on emotion and if you want to win her heart always let her know you indeed feel how much she adores you. A woman needs to know she is enough for you. In doing this she will never doubt one day in the future some other women will catch your attention. Let her know she is Enough!

2) Be sure to find ways to not lump her into the “all woman” category. Your woman will fall deeply in love with you when you set her apart in a positive way. She wants to also feel as though she is Queen to you.

3) Be open to her honestly about how you really feel. Yes! Let out those words of your intention immediately. There is no need to waste years of your life secretly wanting to marry someone but being to afraid to say those words!

4) Look into her eyes often, especially when you are sharing your vulnerable side with her. Woman have a strong desire to nurture, heal and comfort. A strong man can be vulnerable and desirable. She will automatically desire to care for you and she will see your need for care in your eyes.

5) Be inspiring. A woman does not enjoy logic when it comes to love. Every part of her that will fall passionately for you comes from her emotions, heart and natural ability to love. Love making is not only for the bedroom. You can make love all day with your woman…

-with a look in your eyes

-an embrace

-a soft kiss

-in your conversations

By doing this you will cause her to unconsciously set you apart from other men as the man that makes her feel alive and passionate!

6) She wants to know the love between you and her will grow. Imagine the love between you and her in the beginning as a tiny drop of water. Tell her that drop of water will grow into a stream, and then a river, and then form into an ocean. Remind her daily the best is yet to come. If you desire a future with her she wants to know your love will increase as the days go by. The nature of the Universe is to expand always and this is also true of Love. A stagnant pool of water attracts all kinds of yucky creatures.

7) And number seven. If you can do this gentleman you will win her heart. ‘ Allow her to KISS YOU” As a teenager and in my 20’s the men I was with always kissed me first. It seemed they were in a great hurry . My now husband allowed me the space and time to find the passionate woman in me that desired to KISS HIM, and I did! The truth is after I reached out with my hands on his cheeks and pulled his lips to mine I knew! I wanted to Marry Him.

There are so many more reasons why I said “Yes” to my Husband when he proposed to me but these are a few. They were deeply important to me and I am sure deeply important to a lot of ladies out there. Remember Marriages are made IN Heaven not ON Earth. Be the man you are on the inside she wants a real husband not a man who acts like one.

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  1. Patty Hays

    On December 12, 2008 at 5:02 pm


    Wonderful advice, Colleen!

  2. Colleen Ranney

    On January 9, 2009 at 5:08 pm


    Thanks Patty I am so glad I said YES!

  3. Brian Daniel Stankich

    On January 25, 2009 at 9:08 pm


    That’s REALLY SWEET Colleen. I hadn’t though of number 7, this is a good one, though not too many men would make it. Thanks for sharing your story! Hey, consider editing your usage/spelling of woman (need women sometimes) and once with man/men. Correct usage makes it much easier to read. Brian

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