Seven Things You Should Know on How to Prevent Date Rape

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Date rape is defined as non-consensual sexual intercourse with a friend or acquaintance. According to statistics compiled by the University of the Sciences in Philadelphia, about twenty seven percent men who were date-raped did not understand that what had happened was legally considered rape.

Even more shocking is that eighty four percent of men who were involved in a date rape did not realize that their actions legally fitted the definition of date rape. Following are 7 things you should know on how to prevent from the date rape.

Definition of Date Rape

You must make sure that you really know the definition of rape. Date rape is a legal term. It’s can only be performed by a man against a woman. The definition of date rape refers to manipulated, forced or nonconsensual sexual act between couples or generally friends who are known to each other occurring in date-like situation.

Coerce

If someone tries to coerce you into doing something that you feels uncomfortable either by touching or kissing, you must tell him clearly and loudly that you don’t like it or say `Stop’ or `No’, and mean it.

Limitation

Be clear about your limits and do not give in to persuasion. If you are getting too friendly, it can easily be misunderstood by possible perpetrators. Studies shows that more than eighty four percent of women who have been date raped mentioned that they are already knew the people who are attacking you. You should always lookout for suspicious signs or behavior.

Unattended Drinks

If you are at a party, get your own drinks. Do not drink if you have left your drink standing unattended for a long time! If you are going to drink, limit your drinking. Ninety percent of date rape cases occur when the victim is drunk. Be responsible when it comes to alcohol. Do not allow yourself to get into a position where you lose sense of your surroundings.

Trusted Friends

Go to parties with friends who can be trusted to stand up for you or bring you home safely. Instead of showing up alone at a blind date or during a bar night out, it is better bring your company together with you and spend some time introducing the people that approaches to you before leaving the safety of your own company in quest of another romantic adventure.

Drugged

First, you should know your rights. You have sole rights to your body and no one can violate your territorial space without your consent. If you think that you have been drugged, tell a friend immediately and leave the location at once. In order to protect yourself, it is a good idea to carry a self-defense object with you.

Arrange Transportation

Never leave a party with someone you do not know well. If you have been drinking, take a taxi. Better yet, arrange transportation before-hand so you are not left stranded. As research reveals, eighty eight percent of date rape occurred during on the way back home. Avoid from accepting any invitation rides from people that you barely know.

Conclusion

Date rape is still an under-reported crime as many women feel ashamed or afraid, particularly if they know the perpetrator well. Always remember that that reading the above advices are imperative as the recent statistics show that women between the ages of sixteen to twenty five are four times more prone to date rape. Be cautious today so as to avoid being sorry tomorrow. These are some tips on how to preventing from the date rape.