Sex with Ex
by Is it a mistake? Will sex with ex make you even more miserable or is it just a good fun? Either way you put it, the point is that no one wants to get hurt. Here are some tips that will help you decide what to do and how to do.
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Post CommentHelloSiti
On July 4, 2009 at 7:42 am
Okay, now that you made the call, get ready for the next step. Remove all memories of your ex from the flat. Photo frames, cute little stuffed animals, and unused condoms. This way, you are making a clear message, “Sex does not mean us getting back together.”
That (sex without marriage)really is not giving benefit!
Christian
On July 20, 2009 at 3:36 am
Let us please discuss this topic civily without name calling. This topic can be discussed and better understood this way.
In terms of scripture and what it has to say about divorce and remarriage, here are some passages I found.
Matthew 5:32 (King James Version) But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Matthew 19:3-9 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? 4And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Romans 7:1-3 (King James Version) 1Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? 2For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
In short….the scriptures above strongly discourage any form of termination of a marriage. Save for on the grounds of fornication, infidelity, or as some would call it…unfaithfulness. Does this necessarily mean that all out there who are married to an unfaithful spouse should leave them? No…not necessarily. For even in the OT God commanded Hosea to remain married to his wife who frequently commited acts of fornication.
Remarriage….the only scripture seen that I know of…though I could be wrong…states that if one’s spouse is still alive and goes an marries another that they are commiting adultery.
Though I have seen one or two mention how this applies or applied solely to the male gender, I am inclined to disagree. For if we as believers are to follow after Christ…..male and female…..we should try to live as He taught us.
I apologize for any offense caused. None was meant.
May God Bless You
HelloSiti
On July 20, 2009 at 1:54 pm
From the page:”This is no surprise. Many people do this. Sex with ex is like a forbidden fruit, sweet, juicy, but you don’t want anyone to find out you had it.”
If it is forbidden, what for we do that? And sweet, juicy, … of what? That’s only will hurt the people who are involved.
@Christian, King James Bible had been translated weakly and had changed from time to time.
Bible doesn’t have any original language anymore because it is translated without the real first language from Isa SAW and his students.
James DeVere
On February 17, 2011 at 3:12 am
This really cheered me up. Been there and actually really liked it in a naughty way. Very well written. Thank `you . j
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