Sexual Problems in Your Relationship Need Tending Loving Care
When it comes to problems in a relationship, men can usually sit down with you and discuss why the bills were not paid or how come the bank statement is over drawn. When you tell your man that you don’t feel like having sex tonight, he may become most upset and start telling you that something is drastically wrong with you.
Men seem to get a free ride whenever the taboo subject of SEX is involved. Too many try to have their cake and eat it to syndrome.
When a man tells you he does not want to have sex, it is usually because he is brain dead or he can’t get Viagra tonight. Seriously it happens rarely and if it does, the woman is suppose to accept this without getting angry with him.
Should a woman tell a man that she is not up to performing tonight and she has a headache, it’s a good bet that not only will the man get upset but he will start accusing her of needing some sort of psychiatric help.
It should be fairer than that for women but men are certainly not the top of the heap in understanding women’s sexuality problems much less when it comes to the man not being able to have the sexual release with his woman.
The man who truly is willing to understand some of the reasons why he is unable to have sex with his girl tonight is few and far between. They should have a special course for all men involved in a steady relationship.
The first part would be in learning how to communicate with his girl and the second part would be teaching how to read her verbal and body signs. The two go hand in hand because generally a woman will use her body as she relates certain issues that are getting to her. Of course this is not the rule for every women but you should see body language of disinterest or hand signals in the least. The worst tell tale sign would be the mouth or facial expressions when you have upset your girl. Her tone of voice may be enough to hear how she really feels!
The majority of the time when a woman refrains from sex, it is because she REALLY is feeling down or hurting. Women want sex every bit as much as men even though you would have a tough time proving this to some men.
No one deserves to be yelled at and the worst thing to do when another is feeling sick or out of sorts is to yell at them. This is guaranteed to add fuel to an already burning fire!
In equality a woman should not have to defend herself if for any reason at all if she does not want to indulge sexually with her guy. If she stops having sex for days at a time then it may be time to delve deeper and be kind when suggesting some type of professional help may be the way to bring back her wellness.
The man should use tact and be most kind when a woman is feeling out of sorts, just as men should expect to be treated when they can’t achieve an erection when the woman is ready to have sex. It’s all about being kind to your mate.
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