She’s Just Not That Into Me
If your girl displays any of these signs, she’s just not that into you.
After a 3 month relationship, I am officially single: Let it be known, I am back on the scene.
In retrospect, there were several signs that I should’ve picked up on.
Sign #1 Every time I called her, she did call me back, but not until after 11pm. Knowing I went to bed early, she called after a certain time so she could just leave me a message and thus avoid talking to me.
Sign #2 I received a couple of random texts that seemed a little off; like she meant to send them to someone else. I’d reply, and then never hear from her again.
Sign #3 When we were hooking up, she called me the wrong name.
Sign #4 She was always busy and tired. She worked from 8-2. That meant she was busy from 2-11 everyday including weekends. 2-10, I could see. But 2-11?
Sign#5 She went to LA for a month to find herself. Any time somebody says this, you know you’re in trouble.
We finally spoke on the phone and I asked why she was avoiding me. Was she seeing someone else? Did I do something wrong? You know, I have feelings too. Then it occurred to me…I was the chick. She was casually dating me having her fun while I was making plans for a relationship. She did to me what I’ve done to most girls I’ve dated. Have my fun. Avoid the talk. Do my own thing. So now I know what it feels like. So the moral of the story is… date several girls at once.
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Wild Redhead
On October 6, 2008 at 12:39 am
Loved this!!! And although the moral of your story is just fine as it is…you will continue to be “the moral of this story” until you recognize those feelings of being casually dated and care enough about the woman to see the errors of your ways!! Of course they are only errors if you have true feelings towards a woman…let’s just hope you aren’t on the receiving end of the “casual date” when you do
Stuff
On October 6, 2008 at 4:01 pm
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Happy
On October 10, 2008 at 8:49 pm
Maybe try to date peopel without mayor ppnal issues,
Anonymous
On February 25, 2009 at 8:48 am
I’ve just gone through the same thing… My girl displayed only 2 of those signs, but it was obvious that she wasn’t just that into me.
Now I know how it feels like… and it’s a hard one to swallow.
thedude
On October 17, 2009 at 3:42 pm
when we were hooking up she was calling me by a different name! thats great man.. yeah i feel for you in high school I casually dated now i’m looking for something serious and i’m the “chick” looking for a relationship haha. Date several women at once? sounds like a legit counter aggressive plan? but I dont know.. Dating = damned if you do damned if you dont
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