Six Simple Phrases Describing Cheating Partner

What is in an extra marital affair?

It begins as friendship, and slowly graduates, a call now too often, “let me walk you home because you have been working late today with me”, a friendly touch, a longer than usual hug, and before you realize it, there is the kissing, the evening outings that for now you don’t want to call a date. Before long the one partner decides “Hey the grass is surely greener here, the sun is warmer and so is the heart more than that at home!”

Whatever the reason you want to give for the affair; boredom, feeling unappreciated or just having a fling, an affair is an unfair treatment for the other partner.

A good description of a partner who is having an affair is a composition of these points.

• An ill-mind. The mere thought of having an extra marital affair is both sickening and degrading. This kind of person sits in front of his or her partner and pretends to be there in spirit, mind and body, giving completely fragmented attention to his or her partner who in this case is expected to be devoted to him or her. How sick could a mind possibly be?
• A mean-spirited being. It is mean for a married person to extend his or her rights sexuality to an extra person. When one is married he or she is bound to his partner for better or for worse so that whatever the situation the only one to share his or her body with is the one partner he or she is married to.
• The lazy fellow! An extra marital affair is a sign of laziness on the side of the partner who is having the affair. That partner does not want to confront the deficiencies in his or her life and therefore desires that someone else out of the vow ring deals with his or her weakness instead of working towards healing the deficiencies. Keep off from these kind of people, they are a huge parasite even if they act rich in money and time. They are completely out of balance and unreliable. Don’t be a victim.
• A poor manager. To keep an extra affair burning the cheating partner will need to bend out of the discussed family budget to support unnecessary expenses, and just for a two-minute gratification. He or she will spend time and money on an expensive item or even a call, most of the time telling lies to both the marriage partner and the extra marital one. You cannot afford to trust such a person whether with earthly riches or spiritual gifts.
• A destroyer of good morals. A cheating partner is a horrible neighbour; as much as you would want to mind your own business it’s important to know how well your neighbour is keeping. Well, he is busy having an affair with the secretary at work. You have to keep lying on his behalf to keep in terms. You tell the truth and you loose a neighbour! If this kind of partner is a friend of yours, you will soon become a pathological liar. Bad company ruins good morals.
• A disrespectful being. A partner involved in an extra marital affair is disrespectful. This kind of a partner lacks respect for the one partner whom he or she is married to. This partner does not consider his marital partner as human but as an item to be used and disposed at will. He or she doesn’t think the other partner is worth the respect. He or she also lacks self respect.

You could add to the list, but whether the affair ends up in divorcing the marital partner and marrying this newly found love or just goes on having this kind of an affair, this person is unreliable. Unless he or she chooses to change and recommit to the original partner he or she does not and will never enjoy life in its fullness. He or she lives sparingly and therefore only receives the benefit of such life. A twisted mind cannot yield healthy decisions.

If you are living this kind of life you are unproductive to your family and people around you. Your life is a shame to those who know you, worse still those who are called by your name.

Get out of it!