Stable Relationship Before a Baby is Important

“Now I call you man and wife”. This magic sentence may be a dream come true for some people or may not be so for others. In today’s modern world, marriage is no more a bar to keep a relationship alive. But, a healthy relationship with partner has always been a dream since the beginning. Though live together is still not so welcome in some of the societies around the world; but, living happily and peacefully has always been one of the topmost priorities for everybody. In most of the cases a man or a woman starts his or her dating as soon as he/she attains teen age. Their maturity level at this time may not be so strong, but the desire for a relationship is pure and divine. Most of the relationships in teen ages end up as an infatuation, not as a pure love.  The saying “Love is divine” is very true, but, only when it is a pure love, not an infatuation. Sometimes teenagers (girls) end up with an untimely pregnancy as a result of infatuation. This, in most of the cases is driven by the urge of sexual desire, which is like an exciting new world to the teenagers. One should keep it in mind that, having a relationship based on pure sexual desire should not be continued for long. Mere physical relationship without a pure emotional attachment is baseless and bears no fruit of a happy life.

            Relationship in late twenties and thirties is less vulnerable than in teen ages. Here each of the partners becomes mature and becomes much more cautious towards emotional attachments as well as their urge of a physical relationship. The most amazing feature of this type of relationship is stability. This time, both of the partners are well aware of their situations and other social conditions. Stability in relationship is one of the important factors in a healthy relationship. Having a baby is the keel of a relationship, which one wish to continue throughout his/her life. This is an important event of the life and the decision to have a baby should be taken after considering all aspects of the relationship. Stability is of course the most important factor among those aspects. Though you can say that, financial and social stability should be the one, we should cater for. Remember, partners with an unstable relationship might have well financial stability, but, looses social stability sooner or later due to a broken relationship for sure. Think of the child whose parents are divorced. The dilemma, which the child faces every day in its life, is actually unbearable. Today, majority of us are suffering from the cancer of unstable relationship due to whatever reasons may be.