Terrible Habits That Keep Girls Long

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My wish is to see all girls covered with love in their husbands’ homes, without filing their names in net in search of relationships that can only be found once in one million. And such wish I have is the main driving force behind my commitment in writing marriage related articles recently. I know very well that the greatest chance a girl has to market herself before men is that which exists in the place where such girl has the opportunity to advertise her good character before many eyes that would be watching on her. What I mean by this is that more chance exists for a girl for marriage in the immediate environment where she finds herself more than any other place, including the net. I believe this because there is an opportunity for the girl to package herself in parcels that make men trip before many men that will be watching her to see the stuff she has. I know as a man, that apart from body qualities which can bring men to a girl, there are certain other things inside, which men must want to know before they would finally say yes or no to a girl. And the absence of such things is actually the things that keep girls waiting for too long in their single life. The absence of such thing I meant means the presence of these other ones that scare men away.

One is lack of sexual desire. There is almost no other thing that keeps men attached to a woman than a character of active sexual life in a woman. Men’s interest in sex is not what any other thing can supplant. Sometimes, you may see some men that may say that they don’t have interest in sex. Just know that such men that say such thing may be having one sexual problem or another. Sex is almost like nothing to men.

Two is insubordination. Men are looking for girls that will respect them and obey their wishes without being forced to do so. No man likes a girl that will jump on his head and tear him apart with the slightest provocation.

Three is bad mouth. My father said that bad mouth is more painful than razor cut. Mouths that can wag from hours to hours full of words that are cruel are another thing that keeps men off. Watch out for any girl of bad mouth, her place is her father’s house for ever.

The third one is greed. Some girls can’t just be satisfied with whatever their men may have. Their eyes are always outside, wishing they could have been the other person in another situation. Most men can hardly put up with girls like that. A satisfactory girl who will always give her man the pride that he is doing his best is what men want.

Number four is waywardness. Even though it came as number four in this order, this is the last thing any man can take. A man can endure to put up with other flaws, but when it comes to sharing his girl with another man, count it off. And girls who pride in doing things like that find it difficult to keep their men.

Another one is filthiness. Dirty habit is a dangerous habit a girl can keep and forget about men in her life. This may come in the form of mouth odor, body odor, dirty under wears, smelling hair, tattered make-ups, and so on. I’ve seen many beautiful girls that lasted single because of their ease with filth. Girls avoid it.

Laziness is next. In whichever form it may appear, men don’t like it. And so also is the next one.

Insensitivity; men want girls that will share their pains with them when that may be necessary. A girl that will snore off with ease in the face of her husband’s plights will find it hard to stay with a man. In trouble times, men want sympathizers and the number one in their order of expectation is their wives.

All these plus too many more like gossiping, lying, cheating, and so on, are things a girl would have and her years in her father’s house would definitely be long, for thing like that make men keep off.