That Angry Person Inside

     For a person to truly understand anger, it is necessary to either have been one of those angry people and changed or known second hand that trait in another person close to them.  The author has known violent anger, so with some experience I reveal some traits of anger for help to those wishing to grab it.

    Growing up around anger issues, in an immediate close relationship, with a role model, tends to put an OK label on that emotional outburst.  That is; until it is executed toward someone who has not experienced anger in the raw form.  Seeing what the outcome of being angry creates is not anything one honors or admires.  The emotional mess that anger leaves is a devastation with many tentacles. Fear of recurrence of that anger is down the list, but it very much remains a focal point.

     The immediate clean up after angry outbursts is not an easy one. It is not only the physical disturbance, but the emotional and material items to be cleaned as well.  The search for the reason to correct that anger seems to come as the house cleaning efforts to change things begins.  The root cause is not well defined, since the anger came from another with sometimes a drug related stimuli.  When drugs are introduced, nothing is within normal limits. Hereditary roots have some purpose in mentioning, however it is thought that is not a valid reason to leave that in this article long enough to let the ink dry on those words. Mental disorders within the brain can be truly examined with perseverance along with personality conflicts.

    It is not easy to allow the thought of two people not being able to get along well enough to stop the anger, but it is a real possibility.  Even with love, a family, promises and bright looking future, a real briskness between two people can tear them apart.  Anger is a great catalyst to do the tearing.  It could be a low self esteem that induces the anger in the first stages and the fact that a person keeps feeling less than they should about themselves that allows the anger to get absolutely out of hand.  When a person looks at how together one person is and when another needs so much to be together, the comparison is an eye opener. Maybe that is enough to feed the next anger issue that is brewing.

    Controlling personality, obsessive, compulsive along with chemical imbalance are all areas to delve deeply into when a search is desired to determine a cause for anger. It is only a little speck that can create havoc.  Truly it is not even suggested that speck has any  root cause of that anger. My PHD is (piled higher and deeper) so the authority is not sustained here to put validity on that last statement. I do stand firm in my belief it has little to do with the person to whom the anger is directed!  Triggers are sometimes known, yet can catch the victim unaware at anytime, so nothing is firm or concrete.  The bottom can fall out from underneath what seems to be a good event creating a hell one did not ever anticipate.

    Conclusion:    Far longer than it was ever revealed to the public, the author knew the distinct association of animal abuse and human physical abuse.   It is psychologically sound to think a person can change and make the anger go away, but the one needing to change is the angry person. That person actually needs to see they need help in multi directions to even begin changing. If there is no desire to make changes, the insanity will continue.