The Differences Between a Whiner and a Plain Reasonable Person
by Are you a whiner or just being reasonable? There are many times that being reasonable is truly need when the calls come up out to defend a loved one’s or even yourself when you have no one to rely on. Simply being compliant whining everything that occasionally find outrageous and upsetting. You could fall either on these following categories.
1. The Goody type – This is a kind of compliant person who always abide the rules and yet their some double sides on it. Mostly you may like to test and even tempted to break rules. Also there are times that when one get to its senses it feel worthy or being proud to anger some, or break some. Though there are those who like to test tide of water. They felt some form accomplishment it is like a compliment to self which meant one is so effective. While those who have the super patience attitude so if ever they react to anyone annoyance, belligerent, rude remarks or attitude. They are hardly noticeable, as quiet and calm as the breeze of the seas, unmindful and keeping self in solicitude.
. The Zen type -On the other hand, there are cases when you could react by dictate of sudden impulses with lack of thinking relentless in an aggressive ways. The way of words comes out in one mouth as it is spoken the way the act toward them have its effect on them. It is like breaking into their secret words, breaking their silence, awakening the calm dragon inside their mind. Like a calm sea set in an early beautiful morning then it changes its pace become a roaring waves that tend to develop into a tornado. Well that is just a surprise of the day whatever it just comes out and they reacted. And whatever surprising they regard you as a total turn off and yet when they realize you just challenge them they become your friends even the best of friends and hopefully not the beast of friends.
3. The Total turns off- But it is the reality. Have you met already a person like that or who have the similar attitude and the way she talk or behaves at you really comes as a source of irritation and yet you come to full realization without them you are just dry person who seem to have a dull life for quite some time having a habit of leading and living no trouble free life. It seems effective to make you aware that they exist and you co-exist making you more participative.
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Post Commentdrelayaraja
On July 10, 2010 at 11:04 am
Very interesting write
Nice share
Aileen Tecson
On July 12, 2010 at 12:34 am
Thanks for your comments. very much appreciated:-)
Jswana
On July 14, 2010 at 2:23 am
Fascinating look at different personalities and a enjoyable read. thanks for sharing.
Judy Sheldon
On July 14, 2010 at 2:24 am
My husband likes to say I whine if I lodge a complaint, but his are just voicing an opinion. I think this is open to interpretation.
Aileen Tecson
On July 17, 2010 at 3:36 am
@jswana
thanks for reading it..
@judy
it is necessary while being misunderstood sometimes it becomes open to further negotiation..
yes me
On July 20, 2010 at 8:54 am
An interesting read here cheers.
Aileen Tecson
On July 23, 2010 at 12:38 pm
matt,
thanks a lot;-)
Starpisces
On August 10, 2010 at 7:55 am
very well written.
I have come across people who complain and complain a lot, pour out their grievances to me anytime without checking I have the time to listen or not etc… but when I just said a bit of my grievances, they will think I complain a lot, they have the patience to talk but don’t have the patience to listen.
anythingAnytime
On August 25, 2010 at 11:50 pm
Interesting article here.
Aileen Tecson
On August 26, 2010 at 11:43 pm
hi anythinganytime,
Thanks a lot