The Endless Quest to Find Your True Love in This Life

You might be expecting a long scientific explanation to this but the answer could not be easier. When you touch a very hot stove, how do you know it’s hot? How long does that feeling takes to manifest? That’s right. With love is the same thing. Once you find your right partner you will instantly know in less than a 0.1 seconds that he or she are the one for you.

This was the easy part. Now what does it take to make the Universe or God or whatever religion you believe in to deliver the package to you? I do not have the answer to this question, except that you have the power of free actions, in my language means “livre arbítrio”. What is this? It’s just what you do after getting the feelings of the signals that you need to carry on. If you see that lovely partner and do nothing about it, you can be sure nothing will ever happen and no one is to be blamed but you and only you.

I know this is hard to accept, but once you do, you can take massive action to change the things. You might be paralyzed with fear of being rejected. Actually that is the second best thing it can happen to you. How!? Whether you actually talk to the partner or not, their feelings are already set, you just need to ask them about their feelings. Would you like to live and not knowing if that partner loves you or not? You might be losing the hot relationship of your life, or you might be betting on something that means nothing to the other person. Seek the truth and the truth shall set you free – John F. Kennedy.

After talking to that potential partner, if you are rejected, is it because of your fault? It’s never your fault. They just do not like your taste, like I like to write. They prefer other flavor and no flavor is good or bad, just different. Can you change your flavor and please the other person and change their feelings? Never. Could anyone in the streets do this with you? Of course not. You either love them here and now, or your heart will never skip a beat because of them, no matter what they do. I can almost feel this is just hitting you.

Now, what can you when your potential partner likes you exactly the same way? I cannot answer this because I was rejected many times and I am still running my personal partner search.

Do not give a second chance to anyone that has ever teared you down or rejected you in the past. Feelings do never change. In fact they will just become stronger and stronger and like a tree that starts to grow in a certain direction, that direction will never change. If you are unsure about this try to remember something about your teens or childhood. Those who liked you back then are the very same people who still love you.

Now the most important part of anyone’s life, the very thought that is always filling your mind, is the love. This article and my limited knowledge cannot yet tell you how to find your love life, except in one thing. Your love life is where your heart tells you it is. This is the answer I get when I meditate and the dream I get every-time I fell asleep. The bad part of the dream is that I see a clock running counter clockwise telling me that everyday I do not take all possible action, I am wasting a night with my partner in her arms.

Do you dream with this too? Share your thoughts and feelings because they are always appreciated.

To those who are already living the relationship of their lives please tell the world what you had to do to enjoy it.