The Five Love Languages

Hello! Today we’re going to talk about a very popular subject. Many movies, dramas, and songs use this subject. What do you think it is? Love! However, there are so many aspects of love, what should I talk about?

Today I will talk about Love Languages. Perhaps you have heard this term before? A Language is a way of communication. Communication is important in relationships. Without communication, a relationship cannot exist. So, what kind of communication do you use when you love someone? When I say love, I don’t mean just romantic love, between a husband or wife, or girlfriend and boyfriend. It can be any kind of love. Between brothers and sisters, mothers and children, etc.

Psychologists have determined there are 5 general love languages. What are they? I will tell you!

Words of Affirmation

Mark Twain once said “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Verbal appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words of Affirmation.”

Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or “You must be the best cook in the world! I love this dinner,” are sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved.

Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement.

Here are some examples: reinforcing a difficult decision; calling attention to progress made on a current project “You are doing a lot of hard work on this project. Keep up your good work!”

Acknowledging a person’s unique perspective on an important topic. “It is interesting to hear your point of view, I enjoy talking with you”

If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help him or her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence. It will help them feel loved.

Quality Time

Quality time is more than just being in the same room.

Its about focusing all your energy on a person. A husband watching TV while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on the person, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.

Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context.

A good friend or mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their friend or partner they are truly listening. People don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.