The Magic of Love

 “Love Me Now”

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The Magic of Love

We all write our own stories by reacting to events, making decisions consistent with our personalities and history. Yes, love makes the world go round. By our own nature we sculpt our relationships into love by taking risks. It has been said, “God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did God give us only one heart? Could it be because he wants to humble us into finding the other one?” Those who’ve never experienced love probably feel like; they aren’t loving people, i.e., not smart, and/ or different than others. They may be defensive, afraid and isolated, carrying a lot of emotional baggage into their relationships. They have imprinted failure into our chances for love. Most believe if we love life; life will love us back. Every day we must learn to take total and complete responsibility for our lives like in my poem below:

Waiting on Love

“Here I am like every other flower in the garden drinking in the pearled dew, and hour after hour a female willow trembles knowingly at our pain, a swan sings close by, both of us living by breath alone, 

Sometimes I moan a little in self-pity, ”Where is my God, why has he forsaken me?” I shake my fist in the air, the weeping willows cry for me, we’re all feeling disowned,  

We’re weak and weary standing here at attention, dreaming dreams no mortals dare to dream, the silence unbroken in my pearl-less pelvis while the weeping willow packs her trunk for our trip to Nevermore…”

Why do so many of us keep searching for love and why are we so afraid we’ve settled. Misery is like an internal clock that keeps our minds unsettled. If we want romance, we need to take risks. We also need to accept getting hurt and then move on. We also need to learn how to draw others to us. Smiles beget smiles. No one wants to be around misery. After all, we are genetically programmed to need joy in our lives. We humans like to hang around those who give us joy. We humans also can be masters at inventing excuses to justify why we aren’t happy.  Those like this often go out, find a chair to sit in. They take our coat off and drape it over the back of the chair defensively. It is their way of establishing boundaries…My chair…My world.