The Silent Language of Women: Does She Like You?

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  He saw me, oh my god he saw me! There will be no second or two. The instant you began to turn in her direction she started looking away trying too avoid your eyes. Inside herself she fears that her feelings for you are written all over her face, and this makes her uncomfortable around you. If this has happened a few times, she probably likes you. If her discomfort annoys you and you’d like to put her at ease, try some brief lite conversation about work or class. If you are humble and respectful, it should help to relax her. However if you seem to have an attitude like, I know you want me, if your lucky I’ll give you a shot. Her feelings for you will probably change very quickly. Even if you don’t think so, you must let on like you would be the lucky one, if anything happened between the two of you. As we all know women have to feel special.

Another very powerful signal that a woman likes you is the smile. Often times when a woman desires a man she will smile at him, whenever they meet. (Except for the shy ones mentioned above). Sometimes however she will do it just to be polite. If you are honest with yourself you can probably tell the difference. If she gets a great big smile every time your eyes meet, than you can bet she probably likes you. If it’s only when you tell a joke or something though, than that doesn’t say much. Pay attention to her actions around other men. If she smiles at every guy than in her case smiles are probably not a sign of attraction. However if she uses the same polite, professional smile around everyone else and then she gets a big girly smile when she’s around you, than you are different, you are it.

  Now what about those signals that may not be so obvious. Let’s take hair for example. Hair is yet another powerful signal of a woman’s attraction for a man. Most women make a project out of their hair in the morning before school, or work, which is just normal. When a woman begins to play with her hair around a certain man though, she is saying pick me up and take me away. If you notice that she does this around everybody, than she is either a compulsive flirt, or overly obsessed with her hair. Women likely are not aware when they do this, but when a man they desire is near. It is a natural behavior they display, because deep down they are trying to get his attention. This can happen in many ways. She might simply grab a little woad of hair with her fingertips and twirl it. Or she may remove her hair clip let her hair down and start combing it. The biggest sign of attraction a woman may give with her  hair is flipping it from one side to another. When she does this she is practically screaming

ask me out !

  Laughing is another signal of attraction by women. A woman may laugh at your jokes on purpose to get you to notice her. Or sometimes without trying to she laughs at everything you say, because your voice has an enchanting effect on her, and when whenever she hears it she has to smile and laugh. The last thing I will cover is sitting. The way a woman sits is a can be a good indication of how she feels about you. If she is sitting with her legs and arms crossed, this is a defensive posture saying, you can sit with me but forget about anything else. If however she is sitting with her legs open, than you can probably imagine what she may be thinking about. A little more complex signal is if a woman is sitting cross legged but dangling the foot of the leg crossed over the other and arms not crossed. This is yet another indication that she likes you. I hope this has helped clear up a little of the mystery about women. Be confident, be humble, be brave. Take care.