Comments on: The Ten Commandments for a Match Made in Heaven http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/ Mon, 23 Nov 2009 22:57:18 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: The L. word http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/comment-page-1/#comment-29525 The L. word Wed, 26 Mar 2008 13:56:40 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/#comment-29525 How can an obviously intelligent person with a Ph.D. be so chauvinist in the "Gender Roles" section?! After all, it's articles like these that brainwash women to expect to be treated like inefior beings? No matter how you put it, those gestures are meant to uproot in our minds the notion women are and always will be second class citizens.<br /> <br /> You just can't have one's cake and eat it too. If you want to be taken seriously as a PERSON, get to elect and be elected and such, you can't expect special privileges. Otherwise it makes you phoney. You somehow need to brainwash those burdensome beliefs away from yourself.<br /> <br /> I'm not saying I wouldn't open doors for a woman. I am a nice guy so I may do it. But it's really terrible to tell women they should feel bad with themselves if they pay for a man, or to tell men they should feel bad if a woman paid for them. It's just wrong, especially in an era when women can be much higher ups than men.<br /> <br /> It's also important for men. Let's just say that neanderthal men who beat their woman are probably more likely to also open doors for them and such.<br /> <br /> Men will never truly respect women until they see them as their equal. How can an obviously intelligent person with a Ph.D. be so chauvinist in the “Gender Roles” section?! After all, it’s articles like these that brainwash women to expect to be treated like inefior beings? No matter how you put it, those gestures are meant to uproot in our minds the notion women are and always will be second class citizens.

You just can’t have one’s cake and eat it too. If you want to be taken seriously as a PERSON, get to elect and be elected and such, you can’t expect special privileges. Otherwise it makes you phoney. You somehow need to brainwash those burdensome beliefs away from yourself.

I’m not saying I wouldn’t open doors for a woman. I am a nice guy so I may do it. But it’s really terrible to tell women they should feel bad with themselves if they pay for a man, or to tell men they should feel bad if a woman paid for them. It’s just wrong, especially in an era when women can be much higher ups than men.

It’s also important for men. Let’s just say that neanderthal men who beat their woman are probably more likely to also open doors for them and such.

Men will never truly respect women until they see them as their equal.

]]> By: PatientPatient http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/comment-page-1/#comment-29523 PatientPatient Wed, 05 Sep 2007 17:41:27 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/#comment-29523 >>5. Avoid “playing therapist” with your prospective partner<br /> <br /> unless you're lucky enough to be dating a sex therapist!! >>5. Avoid “playing therapist” with your prospective partner

unless you’re lucky enough to be dating a sex therapist!!

]]> By: Jeff http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/comment-page-1/#comment-29521 Jeff Wed, 22 Aug 2007 05:24:32 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/the-ten-commandments-for-a-match-made-in-heaven/#comment-29521 Well done...great advice to all..Love U!!! Well done…great advice to all..Love U!!!

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