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The Wedding Day

by Adrian in Relationships, February 22, 2007

It’s the most important day in the life of a couple

When two people decide to unite their life’s, a wonderful magic will happen and they must both be prepared for the changes that will take place all around them. They have to share the joy and happiness with their loved ones in a day that is called : “The wedding day”.

Wedding planner

A wedding planner must be very attentive to all the details to make the special night to remember for all the guests that will came to the event, so it will be remember as a fairy-tale of which you’ve always dreamed . He will have to take care of the wedding flowers and decorations, the fabulous menu, the music, the groom and bride’s special arrangement, the wedding activities, the photo shoot and the video recording memories and maybe the transport arrangements of guests in some cases. It’s a big deal to work it out so everything to be dreamy.

Wedding traditions

The traditions in wedding are very various and depends on country,city family roots, cultural roots and various religious beliefs that shaped marriages for thousands of years.Almost all of the customs we observe today in a wedding are echoes of the past traditions: the veil, the wedding rings, the beautiful flowers, the big wedding cake or the getaway car adventure. And all this events that where put on the paintings at first, grain old photos, colour photos and now also on video and audio recordings as we go and step into the future.

From France came the throwing the garter and tossing the bouquet tradition witch was considered that brings good luck and it’s used in many weddings today. Breaking of grass on the wedding day came from Jewish traditions as as the guests applaud. In the Orient the throwing of rice on the couple has always been symbolic of wishing prosperity and good luck to them on the road ahead.

A curios tradition is that tying shoes to the back of the couple’s car that came from Tudor times or the father of the bride to throw the shoe at the groom as a surrender sign and good luck. Some African American wedding tradition tells us of the “jumping the broom” which is used even today on their weddings.

Another American tradition in the Midwestern states is the newly-weds dance, the guests have to pay a dollar to for that and the couple uses the cash for their honeymoon.

Carrying the bride over the threshold is another old traditions when it was considered lady-like for the new bride to “give herself” to her new the husband that would often have to carry the bride over to encourage her to go in. A old legend tells us that this is because the bride was not going to go peacefully into the bridegroom’s abode so, she was dragged or carried across the threshold.

Wedding romance

The “wedding romance” involves little poems written with love one for anther, spoken in from of the priest, and beautiful poems written for the bride & groom by friends, family and loved ones that will be shared on that special night when all the family comes together to party all night.

Then for bride party members as bridesmaid, grooms men, maid/matron of honour, best man and child attendants, some little poems or best wishes can be told to set the new weds on to a good start.

To make the event special, little gifts can be exchanged between the lovers, like small chocolate shaped like a hart or a funny little fluffy toy for the enjoy full spirit of the partners.

The wedding cake

The wedding cake is always something special that needs to be very impressive and also very big if you have many hungry guests. The cake must be decorated in a special unique way and be chosen to integrate into the big picture of the wedding. If generally the groom and the bride will select the cake the wedding planner must make some selection and give suggestions to the couple.

Today the range of style in which wedding cakes are made is so wide it’s always difficult to select one. From classic style and creative from white tiers dripping with sugared blooms to chocolate layers topped with fruit , it’s a real struggle to find a cake that suits your taste.

Selection is really hard, what to select : White classic , retro style, trendy with tulips or maybe a fantasy garden? Chocolate dream looks taste but can we have pretty in link?

Cherry on top or Lovely lilac are just some of hundreds of wedding cakes and it’s up to you what you like .

The get away car

The get away car with the bride is a “must have” on any wedding to spice up the event.

Basically the grooms best man takes the bride on a get away car and the groom is left and he must try to recover her bride. Often he will try to track her down or just phone the best men and offers him something to make him return his wife. The car can be decorated and this part of the night usually happens at the end of the party when all the guest are little tipsy and the groom maybe can be too..

So if you prepared all the details, and you are set to go, have a dreamy wedding make your guest fell good so they will remember your wedding, have a wonderful time and prepare yourself for the honney moon. It’s going to be a blast!

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  1. A. Knights

    On April 19, 2007 at 4:29 am


    This piece has quite a few grammatical and spelling errors.

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