Comments on: Therapy For a Broken Heart: The Five Stages of Death and Dying http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/ Fri, 01 Jun 2012 17:35:12 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: jenny http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-244365 jenny Thu, 18 Feb 2010 00:55:22 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-244365 looh You are not alone, I have just walked away from the same situation as yours. It took some guts, but he was never going to leave his wife and if he had, would things have worked out? No, too much baggage, my kids and his disrupted and think of the fallout. Nice to fantasize about but, I think reality is quite different. Good luck in whatever you choose to do looh

You are not alone, I have just walked away from the same situation as yours. It took some guts, but he was never going to leave his wife and if he had, would things have worked out? No, too much baggage, my kids and his disrupted and think of the fallout. Nice to fantasize about but, I think reality is quite different. Good luck in whatever you choose to do

]]> By: Amir http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-66773 Amir Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:36:15 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-66773 Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance. I think you forgot to mention one thing, a very important one i.e. "Love". No true love would need all these negative feelings or treatment. Any such love which becomes hurtful is not love at all. It can be anything but love. Yes, people "use" someone's innocent hearts for their own purpose. But instead of destroying ourselves, how about punishing the one who tried to kill our soul and innocent love via such deceitful way? I don't mean violence, but simply loving the person enough that he/she is told about it loud enough. Every human, no matter how twisted he/she is, will listen and correct themselves in future. You'd never have them, but their love will always be there, irreplaceable by anyone else. Accept it and enjoy "love", not the deceiver, but your own innocent and beautiful love. Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance. I think you forgot to mention one thing, a very important one i.e. “Love”. No true love would need all these negative feelings or treatment. Any such love which becomes hurtful is not love at all. It can be anything but love. Yes, people “use” someone’s innocent hearts for their own purpose. But instead of destroying ourselves, how about punishing the one who tried to kill our soul and innocent love via such deceitful way? I don’t mean violence, but simply loving the person enough that he/she is told about it loud enough. Every human, no matter how twisted he/she is, will listen and correct themselves in future. You’d never have them, but their love will always be there, irreplaceable by anyone else. Accept it and enjoy “love”, not the deceiver, but your own innocent and beautiful love.

]]> By: Demi http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-66775 Demi Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:15:37 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-66775 I didn't get to the acceptance stage until long after I married someone else. It took around 10 years of marriage before it occurred to me that I wouldn't leave him if I could get the other one back. I guess after years of sharing and being there and going through so much together the love grew. It wasn't bells and whistles but deeper and more solid.<br /> <br /> I'm sorry you're hurting.<br /> <br /> I didn’t get to the acceptance stage until long after I married someone else. It took around 10 years of marriage before it occurred to me that I wouldn’t leave him if I could get the other one back. I guess after years of sharing and being there and going through so much together the love grew. It wasn’t bells and whistles but deeper and more solid.

I’m sorry you’re hurting.

]]> By: looh http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-66771 looh Tue, 21 Apr 2009 06:30:50 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-66771 i am a married guy. my wife is nice and i care for her. i have met someone at work and she is really nice and i think of her all the time. we talk a lot about my life she rarely says much about hers.she is also married. i just cant stop myself thinking of her. i have been in denial, anger, bargain ( still going on ) and depression. so these stages are really true.<br /> any suggestions what i should do. i am a married guy. my wife is nice and i care for her. i have met someone at work and she is really nice and i think of her all the time. we talk a lot about my life she rarely says much about hers.she is also married. i just cant stop myself thinking of her. i have been in denial, anger, bargain ( still going on ) and depression. so these stages are really true.
any suggestions what i should do.

]]> By: ArcX http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-66769 ArcX Fri, 13 Mar 2009 21:04:08 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-66769 i guess its a bit strange iam a guy she's gone for good....with another guy but I'm a survivor.....I love myself...I'll never quit....She'll regret it because I'm special always was nobody is gonna treat her that way.....when its too late she'll come back but then hopefully I'll find the princess of my life... i guess its a bit strange iam a guy she’s gone for good….with another guy but I’m a survivor…..I love myself…I’ll never quit….She’ll regret it because I’m special always was nobody is gonna treat her that way…..when its too late she’ll come back but then hopefully I’ll find the princess of my life…

]]> By: Lulu http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-66767 Lulu Sun, 30 Nov 2008 23:34:16 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-66767 I went through all of these once before...so why do I have to go through again? is so wrong. I keep trying to find out what is it that I learned from this relationship but I don't see anything. All I do is cry right now I am waiting for the part when I don't hurt anymore... I went through all of these once before…so why do I have to go through again? is so wrong. I keep trying to find out what is it that I learned from this relationship but I don’t see anything. All I do is cry right now I am waiting for the part when I don’t hurt anymore…

]]> By: Candace Wade http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-66765 Candace Wade Mon, 23 Jun 2008 16:41:57 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/therapy-for-a-broken-heart-the-five-stages-of-death-and-dying/#comment-66765 OMG........i went through all five stages......but i've learned a valuable lesson....from every relationship there is a lesson learned....it makes you stronger and you are coming closer to finding what you want and who you are......and heartache makes you alot wiser so you can help someone through when they are down OMG……..i went through all five stages……but i’ve learned a valuable lesson….from every relationship there is a lesson learned….it makes you stronger and you are coming closer to finding what you want and who you are……and heartache makes you alot wiser so you can help someone through when they are down

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