Things Every Young Person Needs to Know About Dating

Unless there is some understanding otherwise the fellow pays the expenses. When a fellow is paying for tickets or a meal, the girl should step aside. If the girl is sharing the expenses, she should give him her share of the money ahead of time and let him take care of the expenses.

In a restaurant, the guy asks the girl what she would like and he paces the order. Fellow, be frank about your finances. And girls, be considerate of his finances.

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Girls, a minor touch-up job may be all right at a restaurant table, but if you have to make major repairs to your face or hair, excuse yourself and go to the restroom. But don’t make it a length stay. What seems like only a few minutes talking to the girls can seem like a long time to the guy who is waiting.

If your plans about where you are going are changed, or you see that you are running late, be sure that you and your date call home. This is acting responsibly and both sets of parents will appreciate this.

It’s up to the fellow to see that the girl gets home at the agreed – upon time. But he can hardly be expected to walk away until the girl says goodnight and goes inside. So girls, it’s up to you to take the initiative here. You can do this with a pleasant, “I’ve enjoyed the evening. Thank you so much for taking me.”

What to Do on a Date

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One of the main reasons for dating a person is to get to know that person. You don’t get to know someone from watching hours of movies or TV together. Neither do you get to know someone from hours of “making out.” Some couples have gone steady for years, dating three or four times a week. When they got married, they found out that they didn’t really know each other at all.

To avoid this mistake, get to know a person before getting too serious. Do things together like washing and polishing the car. Play some games together. Have some serious talks that go deeper than:

“I think your eyes are pretty.”

“I like your eyes, too.”

“I think your hair is pretty.”

“I think your hair is pretty, too.”

What about Kissing on Early Dates?

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What does a kiss mean to you? Some girls say that it is just a way of saying “Thank you” to a guy. Why not just say the words? If you establish a reputation for kissing on early dates, every guy who goes out with you will expect to start with this. What will you do later on? Remember the Law of Progression. What satisfies now will not satisfy later on. To sum it up, a kiss should be something very special for a very special person.

What about “Petting”?

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Petting is the promiscuous handling of each other’s bodies. Petting is not sexual satisfaction; it is only sexual stimulation. The more you get, the more you want. If you intend to go all the way, then petting is part of it. But, if you don’t intend to go all the way, don’t pet.

Most guys tend to regard every girl as a challenge. They want to find out just how far they can go. When a guy tries something, he doesn’t necessarily expect anything to happen. Girls, it isn’t exactly an insult when a guy makes a pass at you – he’s just testing your defenses. Neither is it an insult to him when you refuse. Often a guy will relieved to be reassured that you are not that kind of girl.

Girls may not realize it, but guys like to talk about what happens on dates. In fact, what a girl does or doesn’t do on a date is the main subject of the Monday bull sessions. Guys want to know all the details. Like, did you get to first base? Second base? Third base? Did you hit a home run?

To Summarize

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Dating is enjoyable and has some definite benefits, but there is also danger. The danger is that you will do something that hurt your chances for future happiness