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This is What’s Wrong with Women

Men are always to blame when things go wrong in a relationship. Here is a point of view that might allow people to see things a little differently, from a man’s point of view.

I have been dating a girl for over 11 and 1/2 yrs. We met under unusual circumstances, from two different worlds. But somehow found some common interests.

When we met, we used to have all of this fun. We would go out, find friends, and have a good time. Neither of us had a care in the world, other than each other. I started noticing certain things that i never would have thought would make such an impact on our present day situation.

Things were always a pretty good time with us. We always had alot of friends that we found at the clubs we went to. Eventually i noticed that we never did anything but go to the clubs. Then at the end of the week we were always broke.It was alright for a while.

One day i guess i woke up…

I started realizing that i didn’t like certain things she did from time to time, that her focus was the drinking, and the bars. I thought it was a phase that she would go through… Boy, was i wrong!

i started thinking that i might have misjudged certain situations, and her reactions were justifiable to those situations. Again, i was wrong.

Things were wrong! She had been telling me over the years that i had overreacted in certain situations, and that i need to be different. After a while i started taking her perspective into consideration. That was my first mistake.

I realize now that Men and Women see things differently, and that the things i felt in those situations weren’t wrong. Just a different perspective.

 By the time i realized that, it was too late. After 11 and 1/2 years she had grew into believing that her way was right, and that my opinion didn’t matter. And it was then that i realized that things needed to change.

This is part 1 to this. I am not sure as of yet how this is going to end. I have 5 very strong points to make, that are very hard to argue.

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  1. mDOT

    On June 17, 2009 at 8:22 am

    I hear you man, every time there’s a rough patch in a relationship, it’s almost always the man that gets the finger pointed at. It annoys me to no end hearing “well, did you listen to her?”, “what haven’t YOU done for her?”, “did you take HER feelings into consideration?”, the list goes on. Somehow, someway, women were surreptitiously put on a pedestal, and if men don’t treat them as Gods and give in to their every demand, we pretty much get castrated for it.

    I know quite a few women who think all males are scum, but that’s just the males they’ve dealt with. By that logic, I could foolishly believe every female is uncaring and thrives on hurting males through mental and emotional pain. Unfortunately for me, I’d have to hire my own private security firm to protect my given right to reproduce.

  2. Mr s

    On June 18, 2009 at 2:28 am

    I’m sick and tired of woman pretending to be flexible and understanding humans before you marry them, then another animal within her comes out once you give her what she wanted. Someone once said to me “Woman want marriage and once they have it; they don’t know what to do with it”

    From what I have seen and experienced in marriage, arranged marriages are fine, because you never know the monster you are bringing into your life anyway.
    A man is supposed to strive to be a perfect partner with endless money and a woman is supposed to just show up and give you their manipulative smile.

    What is wrong with woman of today?
    I truly believe man have evolved from previous generations of men in many aspects of relationship requirements.
    But woman seem to have regressed immensely. Maybe there is a new institution in the making or I have lost the plot.

  3. S T

    On September 7, 2009 at 6:32 pm

    women fall in love with you then spend there who lives trying to make you into what they want, when you become what they want they dont want you anymore and go looking for someone who reminds them of the way you used to be…

  4. handsome_one

    On December 31, 2009 at 9:43 pm

    women are nothing but lying ,cheating, fake stupid, unsupportive, gealous creatures !!
    I am an Australian healthy tall good looking male ,,, I have not seen any women that I would want to breed with !
    Sorry girls …you have failed the male sex !

  5. grly

    On April 12, 2010 at 6:40 pm


  6. grlygrl

    On April 12, 2010 at 6:40 pm


  7. invincable 4 ever

    On September 25, 2010 at 12:16 am

    I have loved.. I have lost.. And now-
    I have LEARNED…

  8. Pink

    On December 8, 2010 at 6:34 pm

    Yeah we’re pretty gealous….that’s jealous with a g. Yep

  9. atp

    On August 3, 2011 at 1:54 am

    Women are simple to understand… The more money you have the more women will be attracted to you. In spite of what they say, they dont care if your nice, handsome, funny or intelligent…..have money and they very interested… women are simple to understand!!!

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