Men are always to blame when things go wrong in a relationship. Here is a point of view that might allow people to see things a little differently, from a man’s point of view.
I have been dating a girl for over 11 and 1/2 yrs. We met under unusual circumstances, from two different worlds. But somehow found some common interests.
When we met, we used to have all of this fun. We would go out, find friends, and have a good time. Neither of us had a care in the world, other than each other. I started noticing certain things that i never would have thought would make such an impact on our present day situation.
Things were always a pretty good time with us. We always had alot of friends that we found at the clubs we went to. Eventually i noticed that we never did anything but go to the clubs. Then at the end of the week we were always broke.It was alright for a while.
One day i guess i woke up…
I started realizing that i didn’t like certain things she did from time to time, that her focus was the drinking, and the bars. I thought it was a phase that she would go through… Boy, was i wrong!
i started thinking that i might have misjudged certain situations, and her reactions were justifiable to those situations. Again, i was wrong.
Things were wrong! She had been telling me over the years that i had overreacted in certain situations, and that i need to be different. After a while i started taking her perspective into consideration. That was my first mistake.
I realize now that Men and Women see things differently, and that the things i felt in those situations weren’t wrong. Just a different perspective.
By the time i realized that, it was too late. After 11 and 1/2 years she had grew into believing that her way was right, and that my opinion didn’t matter. And it was then that i realized that things needed to change.
This is part 1 to this. I am not sure as of yet how this is going to end. I have 5 very strong points to make, that are very hard to argue.