Three Rules on Successful First Night of Lovemaking

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What you can do, in your capacity, to avoid the nasty variables that could wreck your evening is to plan ahead.  Cope with potential problems—roommates, relatives, pets, visitors, ringing telephones, convertible sofas, hairpieces, and heaven knows what else—before they ruin your evening.

Rule 1: Plan, Plan, Plan.

As soon as you have decided that you do want to sleep with this man, (assuming he wants you!), plan for the occasion.  Forget spontaneity for this first sexual encounter. There are a lot of factors (both physical and psychological) you are still unsure of. 

Rule 2:  Steer the action to your place.

This way you’ll have the advantage of familiarity.  Here you know the way to the bathroom, where to turn on the music, and no strange hallways or unflattering lights. You can sneak off for touch ups, and control exits and entrances.  Most vital plus factor:  the psychological advantage of feeling comfortable and at home will make you confident—even when you’re secretly nervous.

Rule 3:  Make sure you will not be disturbed!  Create a romantic, erotic mood and don’t let anything destroy it! 

These beforehand preparations are the general tips to successful first nights.  The details are up to you.  Be creative and let your sexy and beautiful persona shine and mesmerize him!