Threshold

Here’s the situation, men or women who are in a serious relationship or married will not end the relationship even though they are miserable. Yes, we all know some reasons why men and women will not leave horrible relationships with their significant others: comfortable, intimacy, scared to be alone, do not know the threshold between unhealthy and healthy relationships. It’s infuriating to me that men and woman do not realize that there will always will be a better situation whether it being alone or not. I guess it’s difficult for people in that situation to make that leap.

Of course in the beginning there will be hardship emotionally that will test one’s self internal strength, but after a while life will get better and ultimately you will be happier. It will be another major life lessons learned that you can grow from and feel proud that you survive through the hard times to appreciate the good times. However, not everyone thinks as optimistic as I. Knowing the people in horrible relationships, they will always think that there is nothing better out there for them and continue to live a life in misery. The only way that they will get out of the vicious routine is if they are forced out of the situation, most likely if the other person ends the relationship. By the other person ending the relationship, there is no other option then to face the situation head on. Until this happens they will continue to live out there dreary lives as zombies going through their everyday routine as if this is acceptable for themselves.