Comments on: Tips for Success: Dating Asian Girls

By: A Must Read

A Must Read — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 23:36:48 +0000

I can’t believe I read all this. しつもんがあります。what is your excuse when people ask you why do you learn a language(i.e. adian languages). People never asked why I learned spanish or french but once its an asian language it somehow becomes a big deal. What do you say when people ask why do you like adians? Most of my post college life were filled with girls and guyd tjat seemed to have little geniune feminine quality. They concentrated more on being hot, often louder than the average feminine girl and had little respect for morals. Maybe it was just my area and growing up with asian best friends or something. Asian girls personally to me at least seem more like what a girl should be. Feminene. Excluding the white washed black washed and w.e. rainbow washing else there is. I like cute better than hot because it portrays innocence. Asians may have abused it a bit and may just play and pretend the part but… this is only because they are the only ones that focus on cute more than hot. And yes I know cute can be just as dangerous as hot but in the beginning being cute didnt mean anything sexually like how its distorted nowdays. Since asian girls act cute and feminene as how girls should normally act this is why I choose them over other races by baised preferance. Not because they are asian necessarily bit moreover because they are easier to find the type of girl that I like. If other races acted more femineneon the manner I mentioned then I would be looking to them but all I see is every girl tryinng to focus on being hot. Hot isnt always sexy. Cute isnt sexy either unless its genuine if you get what I mean. By genuine I mean innocent. Kinda defeats the purpose to act cute after you lose your virginity unless it was for your husband. Too much to type to explaon clearly. I hope others understand and have felt what I mean. This is only the attractive aspect. As far as personality they usually tend to be more mature to them selves (which encourages men to be MEN and force guys to be the ones to ask them out like it should be.) They are professional as they are passive torwards anything that is not their priority at first. Such as school, family and so on. Once you become a priority they treat you well only becausee they have had previous experiences fullfilling their previous responsibilities in school, family etc. Its no wonder they treat you very well once they have you as their priority. Its bwcause they have proof doing well with their other priorities. Which I find very professional and mature. Show another race that does or is known for this and has these qualities. Then I may stop looking to asian girls for all my dream girls needs.

By: clinton9

clinton9 — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 05:48:41 +0000

I live in New Zealand and I had never dated an Asian woman, but 30 years of rejected by aggressive European women, I’m after Asian women, who are very rare in New Zealand.
To become a husband for Asian women, you need to learn:
honest, patient, be nice, accept that Asian women are very delicate tropical mammal, suitable for living in tropical countries that had hot & humid climates, plus you have to put up with hot tropical climate, insects that annoys you, Being a reptile keeper / Growner of heliconias means Asian women will love you. Asian women loves heat and having lots and lots of sex.
Asian women HATES cold winters and very low temperature, and can be killed by temperature below 10oC above freezing point. Aggressive & impatient men will be strongly REJECTED.
Asian women have super strong sex drives, but they are very clever and carefully at choose these men.
Men with bad attitudes or has no respect for Asian women”s parents and refuse to help Asian women’s mum or dad by do gardening or turning the soil for her mum or dad to sow seeds, will be REJECTED.
If you are nice, patient and understanding her culture, have good attitudes and listen to her, a loving gentleman and have a good manners, keep her warm at temperature above 20oC and treat her loving & hug her gengly, treat her as if she were a big reptile, and spend times for you and Asian woman to talk, be together… You will be rewarded…lifetime sex, 5 sex a week (40 sex a month), good healthy diet / food, clean house and love your future Asian wife give you.
I grew heliconias and I know Asian women are very delicate strictly tropical mammal, I will have to keep her warm during cold winter. Asian women are like heliconia rostrata.
Treat her well and you will have lots, lots, lots of sex.
Clinton.

By: Val

Val — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 21:31:51 +0000

Ahahahaha… This is hilarious. Firstly he just gave advice for dating ANY GIRL, not just for ASIANS..

Basic step 1 advice man..

But this is a funny site, just be yourself and go after whoever you want.

By: TheSingaporeExperience

TheSingaporeExperience — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 05:11:56 +0000

I’ve been in Asia for +5 years and dated, Chinese, Taiwanese, Malaysian Chinese, Singaporean Chinese and Thai girls and had relationships with all but the Thais and Singaporeans.

Most of the virtues of loyalty, generous, family oriented, mind blowing sex are all true …

BUT watch out for some gotchas. The biggest being the rise and rise of the young gold digger. By far the worse for this sort of thing are the China chinese and Thais. They have an insatiable desire for brands and luxury crap. The Singaporean chinese didn’t used to have this trait so badly but it has been on the rise here significantly. Even the Singaporeans are starting to demand all the latest branded rubbish and expect their boyfriend’s to pony up for it – which the local guys do in spades.

It is a seriously matriarchal society here in Singapore and it is very common to see guys carrying their girlfriend’s handbags while they are out shopping. The kind of behavior that would get you seriously beaten to death in most western countries.

So my take on all this is if you can avoid the money chasers (a good place to start is to avoid any girl carrying a luxury bag AND wearing heels on a lazy Sunday) then you’ll be in for a good life. As for the Asian scene in the US or anywhere outside of Asia/SE Asia I couldn’t comment.

By: Keemla

Keemla — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 09:30:31 +0000

Notwithstanding the perceived qualities of Asian gals, a high percentage of them are rather racist. A large number of non-western guys can’t even get their proverbial foot in the door just because of their skin color.

By: leno

leno — Wed, 29 Jun 2011 17:48:21 +0000

Hey Jo
I agree with you completely. Aisan girls are the bomb

By: Thania

Thania — Tue, 21 Jun 2011 15:03:41 +0000

All asian girls are ready for huge C**K
LOL

By: Jo

Jo — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 05:34:24 +0000

I’ve never seen a longer comments posted on the last 3 years for this tipic ) pretty flattering actually. Am asian, born and raised in asia, mostly educated and socialized in western world. Some white approached me easily and some didn’t, I would say to guys who’ intend to approach asian women to be direct, friendly and no games/pick up lines. Just like having business in Asia, show great attitudes, no hidden motives just to be friends first. If there is confusion in interpreting the behavior, just tell her. Just by reading all the posts above, asian women are the most open, felxible creature in the dating world. But somehow it’s hard for some guys to do it, i guess they are just not comfortable/confident enough )

By: Eliee

Eliee — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 13:29:55 +0000

I am probably one of the only white girls in this forum.
But I\’ve always been a \”fan\” of Asia and their culture. Perhaps the word fan is not the correct term, but I hope you will understand.
I am an aspiring musician, and have been accepted to some of the worlds most prestigious music colleges/universities since the age of 12 (I am 16 now).
My friends are mostly all Asians, and this is not due to the fact that universities are packed with them, but due to the fact that I just click with them. I really don\’t understand this myself, but I can\’t seem to find a common plank with people like myself.
Racism is such a funny thing. Some students give me the ugly eye (the non-asians) for being around Asians and chatting with them. I find it completely ridiculous and hilarious how this is so.
Interestingly enough, my father does look a bit Asian, you can see it in his bone structure, and I myself have upward slanted eyes (double lid) and very very high cheekbones, although I did inherit my Mothers golden blonde hair. I find it fascinating how certain people can actually tell that I have Asian features that aren\’t very distinct, but are there.
This is not a generalization, but I do find many Asian girls to be very confident, knowing their way in life. The majority of them are hard-working and diligent in their studies, even sometimes being preoccupied with their endeavors (which to me, is a very good thing). I have noticed this in almost all Asians (men and women) in the colleges Ive gone to. The best students were by far the Asians, only a few whites I knew where this meticulous in music and their instrument. This is simply what i noticed and by no means am I trying to make myself seem to have extreme low self-esteem (being white that is) and neither am I trying to become a 100% Asian.
I find that Asian Americans and East Asians are different. Actually, very different. I\’ve been public schooled until around 8th grade, and the difference is obvious. So the ones I am talking about are the ones who were born and raised in East Asia (either from Korea Japan Vietnam China etc. etc.). Although, in many Asian American families, the qualities of being Asian is quite discernible.
What I find amazing is how Asians value their family. In the western world, \”family\” doesn\’t really play an important role in some societies. I remember having some white girl friends some years ago. Most of them were \”free-birds\” as my Dad would call them. Going around, putting on loads of makeup at the age of 12, making out with random guys, not caring about grades or school. Now again, Im really not ridiculing whites, just that there are so much people like this. Unfortunately, their parents were either drug addicts and/or involved in the act of neglect, or they were working their asses off, not paying much attention to their kids as they would come home tired and stressed from their work.
Asians can be respected for the many qualities they possess, which makes them much more different than western people.
Its unbelievable how much I have learned from this topic xD

By: Dazygas

Dazygas — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 04:37:07 +0000

FROM EXPERIENCE;
All u need to do is, dnt admire them but be nice, look soft/calm.Always smile, i mean always.only tel her she\’s cute or beautyfl,dnt flirt-talk too much n alwys kip comunication neutral, i mean dnt talk all dat \’i like u n i\’d luv to tek u out kiss u n rock u\” after sayin dis, jst conclude ur conversation wit \”thank u cos i knw i\’ll neva see u again\”