Tired of Thinking?

Missing someone is perhaps a product of close association with the people around you or with a person you have cherished. I am quite sure about this, but there’s a big difference between the two.

Often, when we leave a person who is/are close to us we tend to have this feeling that made us think on how will we find our way to what we have dreamt of if the people whom you considered important in shaping your future are not around you. We began to think on how will we move on knowing that we are now alone in that new world. We tend to have this feeling that it’s as if we are the only person in that new planet. We sometimes forget to think that there might be new good friends awaiting to be discovered soon.

On the other hand, missing someone special is another story. I can say this because as I’ve experience and as you’ve experience, the usual or casual way of missing someone is coupled by hurt, pain, doubt or even jealousy. We miss them in such a way like we can’t move on in a day without him/her when in fact we can. We think so much and we tend to entertain a lot of questions within ourselves that may somehow be answered in a negative way just to avoid missing a lot. These are the usual and undying “what if’s.”

In order to avoid missing a lot, here are some tips for you:

1. Contrary to what we believe in, avoid parties! They will help somehow but the moment you’re done partying, you will again get the kind of feeling that you had before entering a club. And it’s actually a complete waste of money. Instead try to think that you are single now and have no obligations, whatsoever and treat yourself for a lunch, dinner or shopping.
2. Enough getting drunk! It won’t help as well. It will just make your tummy big and the next thing you’ll know is that you already lose you six pack abs and gain a lot of pounds.
3. Try music meditation. No senti’s pls, they’ll kill you! Try rock. It’ll make you strong.
4. Exercise. It’ll shake your stress and make you sleep easily.
5. Take a deep breath and try jumping for a couple of times and enjoy your movie or work. Oops… no drama please!
6. Try blogging. You’ll gain a lot of insights from different people and gain a lot of friends. And what’s good in it, you’ll earn money. Try this site for free.
7. If you just can’t simply relay your feelings to someone else. Try to write them down. You might now know you’re already writing a book.
8. Get yourself busy at work. But don’t use you broken heart as a reason because you might end up hating him/her. That’s not good. Think of your career instead.
9. Tiding you things at home is somehow helpful. I learned it from a novel called perfect. It’s a girls’ usual thing to do in western countries. It’ll make you feel comfortable.
10. No fortune tellers!
11. Avoid your routines. I t will bore you to death and may paved the way of missing so much. Try something different instead and rearrange your routines.
12. It may sound weird but shower helps a lot. Add it with music. Try “We are the Champions” by Queen.
13. Dancing! Yes, dancing. Try to make your own steps. Pretend that you’ll perform on a big stage with thousands of crowd. Don’t forget to make the crowd happy.
14. Of course, avoid things/places that reminds of him/her

If everything else fails, then try the last but the best one,

15. Pray! He knows your suffering and He is willing to help as long as you ask Him

Keep it always cool! Damn I’m starting to miss my ex.