To Love Someone So Much That It Hurts

            Females will go to the doctor and ask one hundred and one questions, while men, if they go, just sit there, which I find totally annoying since “we love them” and want them to be around for as long as possible.  If we bring it up, it turns into a massive argument and just raises blood pressure and anger levels.

            Each level of your relationship with your spouse or partner needs to keep the lines of communications open; I for one try and sometimes I give up. You know what happens when you give up? One day its as if an atomic bomb fell upon your household and everything you were storing up, get through out in nasty bits and pieces along with angry hurtful words, don’t do this!

            When something is bothering you, either speak up then, or cool down and then approach the topic; try to do this within a few minutes of the incident, because it is useless to bring up two months later. Take the time to remember why you fell in love, and what is wrong that so many things are bothering you, making your relation stressed.

            The old saying use to be if you can’t speak to your spouse who can your speak to; when times have changed, and today’s woman lean on each other for support. It this good, I am not too sure, usually a friend can tell you if you’re over reacting. For some therapy is most helpful, seek a marriage counselor if things are really bad and you want to fix the relationship, and move forward.

            Love is a great feeling, being loved is just as great, but over time the newness moves on and it is then that you realize, loving someone so much can be quite painful.