Comments on: Top 10 Tips on How to Have a Happy and Successful Marriage http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/ Fri, 01 Jun 2012 17:52:02 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: nawaz http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-300390 nawaz Sun, 27 Jun 2010 14:56:17 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/#comment-300390 thanks for these tips,im also suffering by small issues and its seems to go big now, i think ur tips will do work even im not good in compromising but still i have to try one of this,thanks again thanks for these tips,im also suffering by small issues and its seems to go big now, i think ur tips will do work even im not good in compromising but still i have to try one of this,thanks again

]]> By: bethenya http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-211889 bethenya Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:46:30 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/#comment-211889 Great tips. Thanks for the reminders. Got to begin again doing some of these tips. Great tips. Thanks for the reminders. Got to begin again doing some of these tips.

]]> By: bearhugs http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-125655 bearhugs Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:44:42 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/#comment-125655 Hi Annticipation,<br /> Thank you for the wonderful comment. I agree with you - having communication and respect is the key to keep the marriage alive and strong. Thank you for reminding that we should never let the sun go down on an argument. <br /> Your comment is very inspiring. Thank you. Hi Annticipation,
Thank you for the wonderful comment. I agree with you – having communication and respect is the key to keep the marriage alive and strong. Thank you for reminding that we should never let the sun go down on an argument.
Your comment is very inspiring. Thank you.

]]> By: Annticipation http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-125653 Annticipation Wed, 24 Jun 2009 01:12:11 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/#comment-125653 I really enjoyed reading the tips. I have been married for 41 years and we are still working at making our relationship work. I am saddened when I see couples break up and sometimes it appears that they walk away from each other without really trying to resolve whatever problem that has arisen. When I got married in 1967 my wonderful Nan, who died at the age of 92 in 1969, said to me that I should never go to bed angry. Never let the sun go down on an argument always try and discuss things before sleeping. And I never have gone to bed without trying to sort out whatever was the problem. If there was not enough time to talk about things properly then I always agreed to differ until such time that we could discuss it. And this may sound funny but I used to make appointments to meet and we would write the time in our diaries. This worked for us. Now we are both retired we have all the time we need. Communication is the key to keeping the love and respect alive. I really enjoyed reading the tips. I have been married for 41 years and we are still working at making our relationship work. I am saddened when I see couples break up and sometimes it appears that they walk away from each other without really trying to resolve whatever problem that has arisen. When I got married in 1967 my wonderful Nan, who died at the age of 92 in 1969, said to me that I should never go to bed angry. Never let the sun go down on an argument always try and discuss things before sleeping. And I never have gone to bed without trying to sort out whatever was the problem. If there was not enough time to talk about things properly then I always agreed to differ until such time that we could discuss it. And this may sound funny but I used to make appointments to meet and we would write the time in our diaries. This worked for us. Now we are both retired we have all the time we need. Communication is the key to keeping the love and respect alive.

]]> By: bearhugs http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-125651 bearhugs Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:35:30 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/#comment-125651 Hi Mimi,<br /> <br /> I think that as long as there is love and respect in a marriage, there is always hope. Remember when we made our vows during our wedding, we vowed for better or for worse? I have been married 14 years, and I have learned through the years that instead of looking at the faults of other people, I look at how I can change myself instead. Life is too short to hold grudges. My brother taught me three things that I should remember and I always remember them. I think it can help you too so I would like to share them with you. The 3 things are: Soften your heart. Learn to forgive. And look to the future. Whenever you are angry or frustrated, think of these 3 things. If you love your husband, cherish your relationship, and show him how much he means to you. Love him the way you did 10 years ago when you were newly married. When you work this through together, you will find ways to solve the problems one by one.<br /> Hope this helps. Take care...<br /> <br /> Bernadine Hi Mimi,

I think that as long as there is love and respect in a marriage, there is always hope. Remember when we made our vows during our wedding, we vowed for better or for worse? I have been married 14 years, and I have learned through the years that instead of looking at the faults of other people, I look at how I can change myself instead. Life is too short to hold grudges. My brother taught me three things that I should remember and I always remember them. I think it can help you too so I would like to share them with you. The 3 things are: Soften your heart. Learn to forgive. And look to the future. Whenever you are angry or frustrated, think of these 3 things. If you love your husband, cherish your relationship, and show him how much he means to you. Love him the way you did 10 years ago when you were newly married. When you work this through together, you will find ways to solve the problems one by one.
Hope this helps. Take care…

Bernadine

]]> By: mimi http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-125649 mimi Wed, 10 Jun 2009 01:28:18 +0000 http://socyberty.com/relationships/top-10-tips-on-how-to-have-a-happy-and-successful-marriage/#comment-125649 hello! Please Help me!<br /> I have read all of the tips and they are great.<br /> but I have been married for almost ten years and ever since I got married my husband's family has caused many problems in our relationship. I had much patience at first but through out the years I have lost that, he tells me Is me that has to change, I know he is a great guy and very responsible. but I dont know what else to do in our marriage. do you think their is hope in this marriage? hello! Please Help me!
I have read all of the tips and they are great.
but I have been married for almost ten years and ever since I got married my husband’s family has caused many problems in our relationship. I had much patience at first but through out the years I have lost that, he tells me Is me that has to change, I know he is a great guy and very responsible. but I dont know what else to do in our marriage. do you think their is hope in this marriage?

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