Top Five Reasons Why You Can
by You are amazing so why can´t you get a date. here are the top five reasons you cant get a date and what you can do about it.
Number 3 You need to revamp your look. Look around you at people that are having success. What are they wearing, what does their profile look like? If you are on a dating site and are not getting any bites try changing your profile and your photograph. Make sure it shows who you really are, makes you feel great about yourself and is inviting. If you are out meeting people in the non cyber world try looking at the way you dress. Something my grandmother says comes to mind. “You should always look your best because you never know who you will meet.” So look your best every day. One big mistake we often make is wearing clothes that do not do anything flattering for us. To avoid this get a stylist to help you or a very stylish friend. You might just like the results.
Number 4 : You are not a good listener. When you are contacting people on-line for instance you are impersonal in your emails. You might say to much, write whole stories about yourself. When you meet someone that has some potential you do not make them feel heard. You have to make sure you are listening to them and hearing what they have to say. Ask questions and be genuinely interested in them. The more you listen to them the more they will be interested in you.
Number 5: You cant get a date because you don’t have confidence in yourself! Having confidence in ourselves is one of the key reasons why others find us attractive. People who exude confidence are magnetic and seem to be surrounded by friends and people who want to be with them. Confidence is so important that if you don’t have it you may begin to behave in self sabotaging ways. You need to be confident, know you are an amazing person and be proud of who you are. Love yourself and accept your shortcomings.
If you recognized yourself in any of these scenarios you are not alone. Most of us do in at least one and sometimes even all of them. You can now identify the barriers that were holding you back and begin to work on them. You don’t have to let them affect your life any more. So go out and be confident. Figure out who you are looking for and target the places that type of person would be at for your search. Find a friend who is great at giving fashion advice or a stylist and create a newer better more confident you. Know that you are putting your best foot forward. Don’t forget to listen to what people are saying and be genuinely interested in them. And know that you will find someone, so you don’t need to feel like the person standing in front of you is the last chance. Be relaxed and have fun.
Drifa Ulfarsdottir Life Coach
Helping you achieve success in your life.
copyrite © Drifa Ulfarsdottir 2009
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