Top Five Ways To Spice Up Your Marriage

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So we ask ourselves, “How do we keep from getting board in our relationships?” Whether your already really board or just getting there, try some of these idea’s with an open mind, and you’ll come out the winner!

First try to Relax. It’s a good idea to concentrate on one an-other’s breathing patterns. Try to sit together holding hands, and achieve rhythmic breathing. This will bring a certain closeness to each of you. Now……..

   1. Try a massage, on you!  Start at your feel with some oils or a sweet lotion. Move up your body to moisten yourself bottom to top. While you do this, watch your partner. Eyes locked together, this should begin the “heating process”.  Let this last as long as you like, but no less than 3 minutes. Your partner will almost surely enjoy watching you touch yourself in such a needing way.

  2. Next is whispers and soft kisses. This step is not always easy on both people involved, but try it. I mean really,  try it.  This will begin the night of fun for you both, so make it last awhile. If you (or they) get to worked up, take a 10 second breath and regroup. remember your doing this for a very good reason! It took you awhile to get board with each other, now take awhile to get re-aquainted!

  3. Here’s where the real fun begins! The next step in this 10 step process is a game! Flip a coin to decide who’s first, then play! The first player gets to request anything he or she wants, exept they only get 15 seconds. So be sure to set the timer or you’ll be done before you start! Play this for-play game at-least 10 minutes to get yourselves worked up to remembering how good this can be for you both! At the end of game time take a short break to regroup from your recent pleasures, get a drink, smoke a cigarette, whatever you need to do within a 3 or 4 minute time span. Meet at the tub in a timely manner!

  4.  Now after the bath is run, get in! Both or one at a time it’s your night, you decide! The most important thing about this bath is the candles, toys and aroma, use them! Wash each other, a lot, touching all the right areas on your partner. Kiss each-other up and down, don’t forget, fun is the goal of this evening!

  5. Now grab your candles and head for the poarch! The poarch is a great place to bond, because it’s not the common bed and it’s not where you’d usually go for your fun night. This step is especially exciding if you have neighbors! While on the poarch you will continue your night slowly. conversation about good things and no bad things! Remember to take this slow, the reward in the end is bound to be the best you’ve had in awhile because you both took the time to play and reconnect, before you played! Have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

You can also try these tactics:  Massaging eachother, Dirty bathtub talk, Calling them on the phone or using txt or e-mail to describe a taste of the evening you’ve planned, a nice walk before the party! Have a few drinks, relax!