Top Ten Don’ts of a Strong Relationship

1. Ladies, what ever you may do, if you think that you love a man more than anything I have something to share with you. Do not fall for a man that can only hang out with you at night, or a man that can only hang out during the day, and needs you out by a certain time because he has a girlfriend and you are just the play thing when she isn’t there to cater to his every whim. You are just a sub who is setting yourself up for a broken heart!

Proof- I loved a man and you would not believe how much for someone that I barely knew, and I was only allowed over after nine at night. He had herbal essence in his shower, and fruit scented body wash. He also had a daughter I did not know about and a girlfriend who I did not know about who he supposedly did not tell me about because she was absolutely nutty. She called me and my mom’s phone numbers and left threatening distasteful messages, and wanted to find my house! Can we say mental?

2. Ladies, don’t ignore your man. Let him understand that he is the most important man in your life, but you should realize that love is like a burning flame of a candle. If you hover over it too much, it will go out so give your special someone time to himself. Don’t leave yourself out either! Take a relaxing aromatherapy bath, get lost in your favorite book, hit the gym, or do something for yourself! It doesn’t hurt a strong relationship to have time away from each other. So many things in a good relationship are more spicy and enjoyable when you miss someone. Besides, if you constantly talk on the phone to someone because you can’t live without the sound of their voice, what do you say to them when you see them. Balance does wonders. Fellas, you’ll drive her nuts if she feels like she can’t even get up to get a drink out of your fridge without you wondering what she is doing.

3. I love sweet musky scented men’s cologne, and I am sure that the ladies love a stetson man,(or whatever scent you find alluring), but us ladies beg you, do not pick us up, (sweet and thoughtful as you may be) and decide that you smell like the scents your job gives off, so you need to mask it with axe. It just isn’t attractive.