Top Ten Mistakes Men Make with Women
This is kind of a how to in reverse, if you will. Here are ten common mistakes that most men make with women.
Here are a few common mistakes that most men make with women. And the bad thing about it is, some guys never even realize it. I am writing this in the hope that I might be able to enlighten fellow members of my species to things that they shouldn’t do. Give me feedback if any of this helps, and I’ll try to put out more related content. Enjoy.
Don’t act macho
Give it up guys. When you’re with you’re buddies everything is fair game, but you need to bear in mind that a woman’s brain has an entirely different train of thought going on. it’s a proven fact that we think differently than women and vice versa. Unfortunately I have found (and been told by several girls) that butting heads and normal male bravado isn’t the key to much of anything. There’s a time and a place for everything, so relax around her. Unless of course, she is being mugged, which would bring back the whole “time and place” idea.
Be careful with the pickup lines
Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t use pickup lines, just be careful which kind of line you use. Do not use any kind of line that involves sex. Her body is not a source for any type of line. Trust me, most women don’t want to hear a guy come up and comment on her backside. And if she does, then you might want to be leery of her.
Pay attention to her, not her body
Let’s face it. A lot of guys are in a derogatory term, pigs. Not necessarily just on the surface, either. Way deep down in every man there is a code that tells him: Check her out!!!! Now I want you to study those words for a second, and then forget they ever existed. When you’re talking to a girl, pay attention to what she’s saying and forget about sex for a second okay? LISTEN. And perhaps, learn a thing or to about her. Women love a man who will listen to them without having his mind in the gutter. So keep it out, and pay attention.
Don’t be possessive
Correct me if I’m wrong, although I don’t believe that I am, but about 98 percent of women (figuratively speaking) just do not like it when a guy acts like he owns her. It would be wise of you to steer clear of that particular instinct, as it will make her quite unhappy, obviously depending on the extremity of the act. (In her eyes, whatever goes on there) Just remember: You are not her mother and father… don’t act like it.
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Post CommentAngel
On August 5, 2008 at 9:44 am
see girls? some men DO pay attention. x
james
On August 5, 2008 at 6:37 pm
That is so true being a man myself, I think that is what men should think about.
Kegan
On August 5, 2008 at 8:23 pm
I like it. Just like the other one — basic, but not quite so much. I know some guys take it overboard with the buying thing… and many guys don’t get the whole idea that “she doesn’t belong to you”. Other than that though, straightforward, not too dry and a good piece of advice.
Kathleen
On August 7, 2008 at 8:00 pm
You are right on the money—-thank you!
gege
On August 10, 2008 at 1:18 am
I agree with everything you said… everything
donald
On October 17, 2008 at 11:26 am
All of this information is true, and it is very well put. And I agree with all that you have said. I have read through this many times, and thanks to you, it has helped my relationship with my beloved fiancee a lot. All I can say is thank you very much for the information that you have provided. It has helped me a great deal.
Gregory
On March 20, 2009 at 8:33 pm
looks like I got to stop being a, well you know. I got to man up and stop being so quite.