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Top Ten Mistakes Men Make with Women

This is kind of a how to in reverse, if you will. Here are ten common mistakes that most men make with women.

Don’t talk about other girls much (Or look for that matter) (at all)

 

Women hate it when a guy talks about his old girlfriends, and why shouldn’t they? I personally can’t stand it when a girl talks about all of the guys that she’s dated. Try to steer your conversations with her well away from this topic. Also, keep your eyes on her. Never, ever let a girl catch you ogling another girl. It’s an instant turnoff, unless of course the girl is into that kind of thing, then all is fair. But for the most part don’t look, and she won’t look away from you

Don’t mumble or procrastinate

 

As far as the mumbling goes I just wanted to put that in. I’ve been guilty of it many times and the effects of which turn out to be negative, though fixable. Now when I say procrastinate I mean just that. I’ve found that I, and several friends of mine tend to wait before doing or saying something important. If you want to tell her something, just go ahead and spill. She will never know unless you speak up, and even if she does, most of the time she won’t say anything. Girls like to be chased, but most of them won’t beg for it. Simply put, they need someone to run from. (figuratively speaking) “Oh, I’ll tell her soon…” Is an incredibly stupid phrase to you. In her eyes, she may very way come to think of you not telling her as lying. As we have already discussed, that is not a good thing.

In Closing:

I would like to add one more piece of advice before I go. If you know the girl has a boyfriend, don’t get your hopes up. You are probably just setting yourself up for some serious heartache later on. If you can’t help but to like her, enjoy her company but remind yourself on a constant basis that you can’t have her. Still determined? A piece of advice- find another girl. Chances are, (unless you’re just dead set) this will get your mind in another direction, one that doesn’t involve a whole lot of foreseen disappointment. Well I hope you enjoyed this, let me know what you think okay?

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  1. Angel

    On August 5, 2008 at 9:44 am


    see girls? some men DO pay attention. x

  2. james

    On August 5, 2008 at 6:37 pm


    That is so true being a man myself, I think that is what men should think about.

  3. Kegan

    On August 5, 2008 at 8:23 pm


    I like it. Just like the other one — basic, but not quite so much. I know some guys take it overboard with the buying thing… and many guys don’t get the whole idea that “she doesn’t belong to you”. Other than that though, straightforward, not too dry and a good piece of advice.

  4. Kathleen

    On August 7, 2008 at 8:00 pm


    You are right on the money—-thank you!

  5. gege

    On August 10, 2008 at 1:18 am


    I agree with everything you said… everything

  6. donald

    On October 17, 2008 at 11:26 am


    All of this information is true, and it is very well put. And I agree with all that you have said. I have read through this many times, and thanks to you, it has helped my relationship with my beloved fiancee a lot. All I can say is thank you very much for the information that you have provided. It has helped me a great deal.

  7. Gregory

    On March 20, 2009 at 8:33 pm


    looks like I got to stop being a, well you know. I got to man up and stop being so quite.

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