Top Ten Rules for Being a Great Husband
by This is a list of the most important rules to follow if you want to have a happy marriage/relationship.
1. Tell her you love her every day. Tell her in the morning. Tell her during the day, if possible and tell her in the evening. A soft, lilting voice is usually best. A woman cannot hear the words I Love You often enough.
2. Kiss her often. The best way is to gently hold her cheeks and give her a gentle and loving smooch. However, a peck on the forehead, cheek or neck will suffice. Also, kissing her hand is very chivalrous and romantic. You should kiss her at least three times a day, more depending on the nature of you relationship. You do not have to say anything. Just a gentle kiss will let her know you care.
3. Be her best friend. By this I mean listening to what she has to say and responding with a positive and meaningful attitude. Take her for a walk on a moonlit night. Just be there for her when she feels like venting or wants to talk about whatever is on her mind. Be attentive, because if you forget what she said and she asks you about it later, you will regret it.
4. Bring home a small gift at least once a month. Every other month is acceptable, but wait no longer than two months. It does not have to be expensive or big. If she collects something, bring her an addition to her collection. A small teddy bear, a necklace, anything that you know she will treasure will be just fine. Once, I went to a local florist and they gave me ten small I Love You cards. I added a witticism to each one and hid them around the house where I knew she would eventually find them. It took her a month to find them all and she loved my idea.
5. Ask her how her day was. This is very important to a woman. She wants to know that you care what she went through every day. Whether she has a job or stays home to take care of the house or kids, she is always working hard, whether you realize it or not. Listen to what she has to say and be compassionate with your response. If you really don’t care, you had better pretend like you do.
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Post Commentlindalulu
On November 22, 2008 at 7:30 am
Very good advice, now I need to find a guy that lives by this…lol
Bernadette Louise
On November 22, 2008 at 1:30 pm
Will you marry me! lol Very thoughtful insights to a womans wants and needs
goodselfme
On November 22, 2008 at 8:56 pm
OH I have truly hoped to see such a piece from you. this is a wonderful write! Post this for every gal looking for happiness. Well done, my friend.
trishia
On November 26, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Way to go! This has to be bookmarked.
Lorrie Silvey
On January 17, 2009 at 8:02 pm
My 10 would be slightly diffrent;
(1) never ask your wife to lift heavy objects.
(2) always stand up for your wife to your side of the family.
(3) let her know she is always beautiful to you.
(4) if you feel she is putting on weight do not say anything just ask her to go on walks with you, play tennis or go biking together.
(5) never say anything mean to her when you drink and forget what you said when you sober up.
(6) never bring up past mistakes and throw them in her face unless she is doing the same thing over and over. Use some kind words and love when talking to her about it instead of being verbally abusive.
(7) when she asks you why you are not being intimate with her anymore, tell the truth that there is something wrong with you instead of telling her she has an ugly body.
(8) when going on vacations let her pick where you will go once in a while.
(9) never buy big exspensive things with out talking it over with her first.
(10) never take credit to your friends and family for what your wife does.
a man
On July 24, 2009 at 10:32 am
This is the stupidest saddest list of pathetic rules I’ve ever read and any woman that expects all that is as twisted and ignorant as the culture that made her that way. Women are the most manipulative selfish weak creatures on earth, whose only purpose in life is to find security through a husband, then treat him like a possession and punish him if he fails to follow these rules…
Any woman that agrees with me, is a women
I can respect.