Trapped in a Bad Relationship: Indicators
by A lot of people have been through this. Bad relationships can be caused by many factors. Here are some indicators that things have gone from bad to worse.
There was never any fun
Sometimes we engage ourselves in relationships because of the sense of thrill and the excitement. But thrill and excitement is not the same thing as fun. Is it our fault that we are confused? The answer to this question is not that simple. There are two guilty parties. One of them is adrenaline that we often sense at the beginning of a relationship. He causes us to feel “high”. And we usually confuse this sense of being “high” with fun. Other guilty party is our youth. We simply don’t have enough experience to identify the situation we are in. The point is that we never had any fun. It’s not like we had it to one point in our relationship and then it suddenly disappeared. But if we somehow manage to figure this out, it can be a clear indicator that we are trapped in a bad relationship.
Little things
There are plenty of things other people do, that annoy us. But once we are in a relationship, we find those same things to be cute. Well, they are cute if we are happy with our relationship. But if we are not satisfied as with our partner, little thing can be annoying. This is a clear indicator that we got ourselves trapped in a bad relationship. Remember, no one is perfect. And to love someone means realizing that the other person is not perfect. If you can’t do that, you are trapped in a bad relationship.
No signs of change
A lot of couples have gone through rough periods in their relationships. And sometimes these strengthen their relationship. But once you figure out that there is no light at the end of the tunnel, you better start looking for emergency exit shaft. If just one of you two can’t see the signs that things are improving, you are trapped in a bad relationship. This is because it takes two people for a relationship to work or fail, not just one.
Thinking about breaking up
Where there’s smoke, there’s fire. This is a well know truth. If you are thinking about breaking up, you are trapped in a bad relationship. That doesn’t mean that the person you are in a relationship with is bad. It means that the two of you don’t get along. And sometimes, it’s just better to go your separate ways.
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