True love or infatuation?

What is true love? Love is a warm and a kind feeling. It’s an affectionate and tender devotion. It’s a warm kind of feeling and fondness between two persons of opposite sex.Its very dangerous to fall in love with looks because love comes from inside. If it’s not true love, then its infatuation. The following are ways that can help you tell whether it’s true love or its just infatuation.

1. True love is not self-centred or selfish. If your loved one says things like: ‘I really feel good when am with you’ or ‘I cant stop thinking about you all the time’ or ‘am sick when am not with you’ and so on, then its not true love. When a person is selfish, he or she uses ‘I’ or ‘me’ or ‘myself’ or anything that refers only to himself or herself frequently.
2. When you have a problem with your loved one and it turns out that its difficult to solve that problem or if the problem never ends and you cannot get along with each other, then its not true love. True love lets you settle things.
3. True love never minds or never cares about time. True love always waits and gives you time to learn more about each other before getting married. True love never rushes into things.
4. True love makes you feel that life has changed for the better and not for the worse. It makes you feel that you’ve become a good and better person.
5. True love doesn’t care about material things. You don’t have to buy your loved one a ten million dollar ring to show how much you love him or her. That is the reason why marriages of most celebrities who value expensive material stuff so much break up frequently.
6. True love doesn’t let you start romance or sex very soon. It always takes time.