Valentine’s Day: Five Simple Steps to Knock Her Socks Off
by Guys, it’s never too early to start preparing how to show your love for her on Valentine’s Day. Don’t buy a card the night before and expect her to be thrilled. Here are five simple things you can do that will make her day.
Too often, we guys treat Valentine’s Day too lightly, and our last minute shopping and lack of planning does not go over well. Want to knock her socks off? Here are five simple things you can try.
1. Write a Love Journal: As far in advance as you can, start a journal of love notes to your significant other. Keep it secret, of course, but give it to her on Valentine’s Day. This will show her that you’ve been loving her all along and that Valentine’s Day isn’t just a one day thing.
2. Homemade Coupons: Give her a stack of hand-written notes — “coupons” — that list things you will do for her and that she can redeem at any time. These can include household chores, yard work, back massages, nights out with the ladies, or whatever. Pick things that you know she will appreciate.
3. Make Today Special: Think about something that you would normally do for her on Valentine’s Day, and then do it today instead. Repeat tomorrow, and then the next day, etc. On the one hand, this might make Valentine’s Day less special, but at some point she’ll realize that you’re treating her to Valentine’s Day every day.
4. What She Wants: Skip the chocolate and flowers unless you KNOW that she REALLY likes that. What does she really want? For you to cook the dinner? For you to give her a foot rub? For you to take the daughter to ballet? This of course means that you’ve got to have an inkling of what’s important to her.
5. No Strings Attached: In all these things, show her that your love for her is unconditional. Don’t demand or expect anything in return. She wants to be loved for who she is, not because of what she’ll do for you.
Happy Valentine’s Day, y’all.
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Post CommentYovita Siswati
On January 12, 2009 at 2:45 am
Interesting ideas! I like idea no. 4. Hope my hubby read it
. Happy Valentine’s day to you Nutuba!
CutestPrincess
On January 12, 2009 at 3:29 am
great tips especially #1, #5 is great!
Westbrook
On January 12, 2009 at 7:20 am
Great romantic ideas.
Holly J. Harrington
On January 12, 2009 at 8:36 am
Very romantic and I love the tips to.
QuinMonty86
On January 12, 2009 at 10:55 am
Great ideas. I’ll have to have my hubby read this, but he’s usually pretty good on his own. Your wife is blessed!
denus
On January 12, 2009 at 2:10 pm
Really great job,
keep it up.
cheers,
denus
littlemisslizzy
On January 12, 2009 at 3:23 pm
You big softie! These are really original ideas – well presented.
Denise Kawaii
On January 12, 2009 at 3:45 pm
Not meaning to echo everyone else – but these are all great ideas. It takes a special man who is really in love to think ahead.
Maria Blazz
On January 12, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Good tips (the one about the coupons is very original to me) but I would say that they are useful for both women and men. Valentine’s Day is a good opportunity to show our love to our significant other for everyone.
Morgana
On January 12, 2009 at 7:57 pm
Those are great ideas. very romantic and sweet.
S A JOHNSON
On January 13, 2009 at 5:12 am
I think these are great ideas! ^_^
lindalulu
On January 13, 2009 at 2:20 pm
Awwww….how sweet you are, thinking of making your lady feel special. I so wish there was more of you out there. Can we clone you???? Lol…
Brian Daniel Stankich
On January 13, 2009 at 10:07 pm
the romantic
luv2write
On January 14, 2009 at 12:29 am
Wonderful tips, so sweet
Armywriter
On January 16, 2009 at 9:32 pm
Very good suggestions. Us guys aren’t usually good at the communicating love part. Great advice.
AC Hamilton III
On January 17, 2009 at 9:17 pm
Hey, how did I miss this before now? Wow!, you are my brother….lol..That’s cool. Great stuff..Only one thing…Even Christian men are allowed the “hot-n-spicy” time…I plan on knocking more than her socks off…..God gave her to me..(Smile)
Proud of you!
AC
Joie Schmidt
On February 11, 2009 at 6:56 pm
Nice article*
Blessings.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
Cookie
On May 28, 2010 at 4:34 pm
Bet you knocked your sweetie’s socks off, Nutuba!