Wake Up

Ladies what will it take for our men to wake up, when will they finally realize that a good woman is a very strong and powerful yet rear specie.  They don’t see that we can make it, just fine without them and most of the time they just slow down the process of us accomplishing what we should, but because we LOVE them we put ourselves and dreams on hold.  We are the cement that continues to hold the house together when they can’t stop it from falling.  We are that little bit of light when they allow the electricity to get cut off.  We even allow ourselves to be those stairs they can clime so that they may reach whatever it is they is trying to grab.  So I ask you, men when are you going to open your eyes, and wake up!!?  Is it when you have to face that what you once had is no longer there? Or perhaps is when a new plan comes along and you begin to miss and appreciate what the old one had to offer? By that time it way far too late. She has moved on with her life, she is stronger, wiser and happier then before.  You try to pull her back in but her strength does not allow her to let  go and fall to the ground where you once walked over her, her wisdom forbids her to fall for the same ideas and thought she once believed in and her happiness will never let her to fall into the depression state she was once in. 

A good woman never asks for something that absolutely can not be retrieved, nor will she expect more then beyond your capabilities.  She sees a good man as someone that not says he loves her but proves it.  Someone that doesn’t ask if she wants something done, just does it.  Someone that’s not going patch up the leak rather than finding its source and fixing it, and someone that is going to Respect her mind, body and spirit despite how he may feel.  The word Respect is always enlarged with a good woman in a relationship, because if you can’t respect women you will never have a stable relationship.  Now for anyone that is reading this, go back a re-read the statement you’ve just read and meditate on it.  No seriously ladies, you need to know if you don’t and if you do you need to remember.  A man that has no respect for women will never be the one you always pictured spending the rest of your life with because you are a woman, and he does not respect you.  So I ask why waste your time he can never be your fulfillment and as long as you are sitting there trying to bring life to something that was already dead before it even came to you, the man that is meant for you is passing right by and you don’t even see him.  Now gentlemen, that’s if you are one, respect for women have a lot to do with your relationship because how can honestly respect your woman if she is one.  Respecting is a problem for most of our men, and “you” still can’t figure out why you can’t hold a good healthy relationship!!?  Respect is treating her the way you want to be treated, it is not doing to her what you don’t want her to do to you.  It is thinking highly of her, it is not seeing her inferior to yourself because she is a woman or because you are a man.  Men that feel this way and have no respect do not deserve a good woman in their life, and if this is how you feel, you don’t need a woman, you need a puppy or something to rule over so you can feel better about yourself.