What I do to confirm if my philosophies on relationships are misleading is to compare how other men I my life who show interest in me weigh against the one that has me smitten.
Sometimes last week I called a young man I went out a couple weeks ago to confront him on why he has not been returning my calls or text messages. He launched into a tirade on how busy he is at work and how he can’t get reception from his work place.
He is apparently too busy for me or plain not that into me. I wrapped myself into my sheet and had an egoism cry then brushed myself off and went clubbing with my sister. It’s not that (like most women) I do not know that when a man says he is too busy to return my calls or talk to me that it is isn’t apparent that there has been some lost of interest.
When a man does not return your calls or texts indefinitely, it translate that he is not very interested in you. I do not care what men say about being busy and that they can’t find time to sneak in a one minute call.
What I do to confirm if my philosophies on relationships are misleading is to compare how other men I my life who show interest in me weigh against the one that has me smitten. Another measuring tool is to compare the way he behaved a prior to intercourse and solidifying your affection for him juxtapose with how he behaves now that he knows he has you hooked.
One of the reasons why women take a longer time to let go of unhealthy, nonexistent and abusive relationships is because women are often too hopeful. We have faith in our men’s sense of value because in the beginning, they mislead us into believing that they are interested in a committed relationship. We often do not know what we did to deserve desertion or what flaws we emoted that made us lose to bid to be his perfect lady.
Sometimes we need a simple phone call for reassurance. Even though you may not want me, it pays to reassure that our experience was not simply a fleeting, inconsequential activity that is erased with the passage of time and other novel experiences.
How brittle the self esteem of the female gender. It shows how much sexual intercourse defines our life. It speaks volumes of how women are emotionally dependent on the men in their lives. This is reason why we dedicate most of our youthful days trying to understand men, spending a slavishly on phone calls and contraptions to encourage our uncooperative men to commit to our romantic idealism and wistful relationship dreams.
When a guy does not return your, take it for what it is and move on with your life. A man not returning your call should not affect your self confidence. It should strengthen your resolved to become a better woman so that men will return your call. I try not get bitter and angry, hurling obscenities, derogatory appellate and misandric spatter