What is Infidelity or Affair? Why and How Many New Ways?

What is Infidelity or Affair? Why and How many new ways?

Infidelity means infringement of the rules that were agreed upon of an intimate bond comprises a significant infringement of faith or unfaithfulness of share principles with which the integrity of the relationship is defined. In the appropriate framework it describes an act of unfaithfulness to one’s husband, wife, or lover, whether sexual or non-sexual in nature.

There are so many ways that you can cheat or have affairs and the reasons behind them see the following:

(1)   Internet affair with online chat rooms, social websites like MySpace, Facebook etc.

(2)   When one person drinks or does drugs and partner does not so when you are at a bar

Or does drugs you get close to that other person because they understand your addiction etc.

(3)   Having a affair with a co-worker at the office because you are working late majority

of the time.

(4)   When you are overseas to serve your country and your partner is left home to take of

home life for nine months of the year or you are in Congress or the Political arena.

(5)   Loss of baby or someone close to you and your partner does not understand you feeling loss of that person

(6)   Stress at home because you have many children and schedules of each person needs to be met.

(7)   Losing the connection between your partners over time. A medical condition like Depression, sexual drive has taken a dip, manic depression, bi-polar disorder, autism

(8)   Newest way to cheat: When one person wants a child and the other person does not and the one partner has a child behind the other partner back by putting their sperm or eggs up for sale and someone else has their baby by artificial insemination and they have that bond now. It not just ladies who want to have children but men too who do not have children yet too.

(9)    Newest way for a female: having affair with a younger man by at least 10 years.

(10)Religion: when one partner does not believe in other partner faith or loses the understanding about God.

There are two areas in a close relationship where infidelity mostly occurs: Physical intimacy and emotional intimacy. Infidelity is not just about sex outside the relationship, but about trust, betrayal, lying and disloyalty.  What makes betrayal so excruciating is that it involves someone deliberately using trickery to violate time-honored expectations within a relationship.

Sexual betrayal refers to sexual activity with someone other than the partner one is committed too. Sexual faithlessness in a marriage is called adultery.

Emotional infidelity refers to emotional involvement with another person which leads one partner to guide emotional assets such as romantic love, time and attention to someone else.

Infidelity is not just lying to others but it is lying to your authentic self. You are not staying true to who you are. Dishonesty and so many lies to cover your tracks break down the bond between you and your partner. The first sin made by man is dishonesty. If you have affair from first 1 month on think of all the lies you have to keep track of. For some people it is the excitement of not getting caught similar to gambling. You think you will win the next hand and the next so forth and so on and you win. The euphoria in you makes you so happy so you do it again and again till you are broke. For others it is the attention. It boosts your ego like famous stars and politicians and sports athletes.

The opposite of infidelity is staying true to your authentic self. The serving and respecting your partner or family is going to be messy, hard work and tiring but the few joys you do get are true gifts of love given unconditionally.

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